@web_shrine It’s that same old bioessentialism—using us as a scapegoat when most of us bend over backwards just to avoid having these conversations in the first place. 2/2
In my experience, modern straight and bi women hold a clear resentment toward lesbians regarding body counts. Society shames their sexual history with men—and they often carry shame about it themselves—while ours exists completely outside of that.
People hate women who do not fuck men. Nuns and voluntarily celibate women are also regularly demonized. The ones who people hate most, though, are homosexual females, especially if "gold star".
People do not know why they hate them, either. They just do. The words don't matter.
@web_shrine It's a classic majority vs. minority dynamic. Resenting men means acknowledging their own agency and part in those dynamics. Blaming a minority within a minority (gold star lesbians) is just easier. 1/2
The thing is, everyone mentioned here is bi to some extent. Until I was 20, I was super welcoming to anyone who told me they were a lesbian regardless of their sexual past, only to watch them go right back to identifying as bi—there's no such thing as an "ex-bisexual.
The whole "ex-lesbian" label is just an appeal to purity culture and an erasure of their prior sexual history with men before they ever called themselves lesbians.
Straight and bisexual women who did nothing during sex were nicknamed “starfish” by men, I believe. Don't like it? Well, take it up with your men. But leave lesbians and their terminology completely out of it.
@ilike2kissgirls Straight and bisexual women who did nothing during sex were nicknamed “starfish” by men, I believe. Don't like it? Well, take it up with your men. But leave lesbians and their terminology completely out of it.
straight people really think pillow princess is when you lay there bored af letting someone use your body to cum in 3 minutes LMFAOO when a chopped hoe calls you twin 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
Your sexual history is proof that bisexuality is the only orientation that's fluid. You're also trying to do a body count reset while appealing to purity culture. Lesbianism isn't a switch you turn on and off, nor is it a temporary phase.
@leonsbelle sexuality isn’t fluid for everyone obviously but it was for me! i genuinely lost all attraction to men and was only attracted to women & nonbinary people for several years….. and now life has changed! i think i get to say it + it’s funny
@MarinateOMyMind@3ternallysweet She didn't discover anything new about herself here. This just shows that sexual orientation isn't fluid. She went back to how she was before coming out as a “lesbian.”
@3ternallysweet It seems like you actually care.
And what's wrong with telling the truth? Most of you seem to think lying is perfectly acceptable, especially when it comes to lying about one's sexual history and past.