I'm in love with this quote
"if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior"
Everyone says “go no contact,” “time will heal,” and “focus on yourself,” but no one tells you what to do at 3:15 am when your chest hurts and you miss them more than ever.
I will never again be the casualty of a man fighting their own demons. You can't love them past their mess. They will make you suffer for it.
Ten times over.
Same with if you come from a decent home environment chances of ending up with a terrible partner are high because you think everyone is as well adjusted as your people! The insanity out here is mind blowing!