Sometimes you reply right away just so nobody thinks you've changed.
You say yes, send another voice message, find a gentler way to explain. By the time you put your phone down, you're drained by an argument you never wanted to have.
Maybe that's what growth looks like:
leaving a conversation unresolved instead of fixing it at your own expense. Not to punish them or win with silence. But to come back when you can speak without losing yourself in who they expect you to be.
Someone who loves you can wait for a reply.
You shouldn't have to abandon yourself to give them one.
Dessa fans acts like the whole world did not throw a party when their fav was sent out of the house, like nigga she is not likeable to start with, so no point trying to shift goal post to my HEAVEN BABY.
#Nechemaduagwu#BBNaija