My Findom Journey

Journaling my way through Findom and reviewing my hot experiences.

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Follow along as I journey my way through findom and review my drains and sessions. Message me if you are interested in being featured.
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@Shanemgillis @Kalshi Shane serving his co-workers some dishonest cuisine with that chinese food. Matt would not have been impressed either.

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@Ihartitz I grabbed a few from Lilly last week and cashed my first 5+ picks parlay of the year. DK and Tuten got me home. We're riding again this week. Lets go!

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@worshipkyoko I think most of us who sub to 2dfd understand the score and choose to maintain the fantasy. I hope most of us are smart enough to know that if there's not some level of verification of voice or cropped IRL pics, there might be a man involved.

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@VirusBreckie @HypnoHotties

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Now that I’ve experienced real trance and pro brainwashing, my opinion has shifted. I see Dommes posting a single spiral or a swirly gif and calling it hypnosis, and I have to laugh. There’s a fundamental lack of understanding and gap in talent between the pros and larpers.

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Nnnghghh I’m so horny and lonely.

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22 yr old coworker. Cute body. Sexy eye makeup and lip gloss. She always looks hot.

Once a month she shows up with no makeup and fried hair. Looks like a gargoyle. Horrible complexion. Dead eyes.

It must take her 90 minutes in the mirror to go from a 2 to an 8.

Lies x1000.

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@paysera_ “I’m a buyer”

Of what? Kit Kats? Postage stamps?

I’m actually ashamed for him. This guy makes me ashamed to be categorically anywhere adjacent to him.

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Voice notes are undefeated. They have to be the single most powerful weapon in findom. And there is a huge difference between an average voice, one that is playing a character with that fake innocent laugh, and one that is supercharged sultry, seductive, and authentic.

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@vrgnbeta You have to sort through the trash to find the diamonds. I am happy to help. I have many favorites.

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FINDOM

Verified Vs Catfish

As an open fan of both, and a 20 year kink veteran, I'm going to break down the pros and cons of these opposing options of findom.

Expand this post to read along or comment. All opinions are welcome. Please don't take any of this personally.

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@submit_to_Kayy Pay-by-the-plunge fincuck.

$1 per thrust. The woman moans out the escalating total.

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Come to think of it, are plumbers getting paid off of this too? Is anyone actually “flushing” keys?

Did I just uncover that the Chastity industrial network is a front being propagated by tradesmen?

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Is like 15% of a locksmith’s income breaking open chastity cages for idiots who threw away the keys?

That interaction must be like a prostate exam. The sub has never been more ashamed or nervous, and the locksmith is just like “chill buddy. You’re the 3rd one today”

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Is like 15% of a locksmith’s income breaking open chastity cages for idiots who threw away the keys?

That interaction must be like a prostate exam. The sub has never been more ashamed or nervous, and the locksmith is just like “chill buddy. You’re the 3rd one today”

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@Biodun_OG She’s so smoking fucking hot. She doesn’t need to know.

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If you're comfortable assuming the risk, then go ahead and get lost in CF. It's hot. It's fun. And I love it. Just be careful out there. Falling in love with a CF Domme can be just as financially and psychologically devastating as the Verified side, and you never know who's who.

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I know this sounds like I'm arguing for CF, and it's going to piss off some Verified. I'll always come back to Verified at times though. There's some Dommes over there that I'm desperately attracted to. I could be silent for 4 years and still pop up for a drain. They're too hot.

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Who knows why a woman chooses not to do Verified. Maybe She's insecure about her body. Maybe She values privacy and doesn't want to impact Her future. Or maybe, She is actually a he. At the end of the day, does it really matter? If it feels right, it's right.

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"We're hot! They're not!"

Yes and no. Some Dommes are insanely hot. Many land in the 4-8/10 range, and there are thousands in the 1-3 range. Fake lashes, hair, and nails. Heavy makeup. Revealing clothes. Heels adding height. Photo filters. How hot are you really?

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"You're worshipping a cartoon?"

Not really. I like the women behind it, and if Her physical beauty matched the rest of Her skills, She'd be the most popular verified Domme on X. It's a tough pill to swallow, but it's the truth. There is a ton of talent on the 2D side of things.

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"They're fake! We're real!"

Yes and no. A lot of Dommes are playing a character too. The market is saturated with those chasing an easy bag. Finding intimate kink knowledge among verified Dommes can be a mess. If it's mostly acting, I'd prefer the better performer.

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"You know you're sending a loser sub, and you still do it?! Gross!"

Right. It is gross. Remember though. A sub knows things that you don't. They know how we think. They know how our brains work. Some are infinitely more psychologically manipulative because of this knowledge.