@TheBurrowKing I think that comes down to whatever the sub and domme have worked out. Safe neglect/degradation kinks DO exist. Its just that too many people come into this without knowing how to respect eachother and set clear boundaries
@yourspoilediana Hes been serving you for a year. I think you're forgetting a sub/domme relationship goes both ways. You're supposed to take care of them too. Its not settling for less. Respecting your subs limits is a part of findom
@falcoRTW I think mostly because such dynamics can easily be misunderstood or turned into something wrong? Capitalism already gives men control and these days findom has mostly been reduced to just asking for money. Shame that the real control dynamics at play are just an afterthought now
you'd kneel before i finished the sentence.
you'd hold your breath if i told you to.
you'd thank me for every second i made you wait.
and i'd take my time. i always do.