Ladies (and anyone else this applies to): if you’ve ever been hooking up/having sex with someone and thought “how did I end up here?” That is a CLEAR indication that no conversation was had about what is currently happening and CONSENT was not obtained!
On the third page of the introduction to her book, Florence Given called me out for shaving my head to rid myself of unwanted attention harrassment from straight guys, when IT SHOULD NOT BE MY JOB TO PREVENT THIS KIND OF HARRASEMENT. I do not exist for others to look at!
I shaved my head a while back to go against conventional standards of beauty while simultaneously expressing myself and doing something I always wanted to do. Aggressively straight guys don’t give me a second look in public so I’d say mission accomplished :)