@_kayfbee Starting over with a new therapist is so mf exhausting. My first one moved out of state. My second went on paternity leave and didn't return. Lol it's already hard finding a black therapist that you can vibe with.
So much of parenting is trying to convince your kid that, no, you are not breaking a long-standing pattern of behavior of caring about them more than yourself and what you're doing is trying to save them from themselves...again
Husband - registered sex offender.
Brother - Rapist, Pedophile
Bestie (Trump) - Rapist, Pedophile, Lair, thief.
New bestie (Netanyahu) - War criminal, baby killer, genocidist.
This woman has a natural affinity for evil.
Nobody talks about the guy who shows up during your healing stage. The one who’s calm, patient, & genuinely kind. He makes you feel safe in ways you didn’t even realise you needed. He’s not love bombing or playing games,he’s consistent, steady, & truly sees you. It’ll scare you.