Rufus Destiny

Cybersecurity enthusiast || Serving Christ || Staying grounded in growth 🌱

[Virgin Boy🧃 @demolaisavirgin]

once you taste babe wey get her own money you go forever avoid poor girls

[HONITEL👑 @HonitelHQ]

We are using days like Boyfriend’s Day to reveal the kind of babes some of you are dating. This is not a joke nor an agenda.

Nobody, at least not me, has ever said that you shouldn’t love and gift your woman. In fact, I’ve consistently maintained that there is no love without GIVING.

The problem is that many of you men are foóls, but you think you are in love. You are in a “relationship” but you are the only giver.

Girlfriend’s Day, you’ll send gifts.
Valentine’s Day, you’ll pay surprise package vendors to curate gifts and decorate hotel rooms.
Birthday, you’ll do even more.
Christmas, Easter, New Year, Sallah, anniversary, you’ll send gifts and money.

Online, you fight for your right to be a provider boyfriend because apparently Nigerian men have this saviour complex and provider fetish.

Now, that is not the problem. The issue is that the babes you people go all out for to do these things for don’t rate you enough to spend their money and resources on you.

They’ll treat Boyfriend’s Day like just another Tuesday. On Valentine’s Day, you’ll think it is just a day dedicated to men to give gifts and show workings.

Many surprise package vendors didn’t sell much yesterday. I know this because I’ve seen the complaints online. It is not just the economy. The babes no rate una like that.

Why do you men romanticize unrequited love so much?

It is not simping if it is mutual.

If you gifted your babe on Girlfriend’s Day and she didn’t gift you yesterday, you are dating rubbish. Yes, it is a bitter pill you must swallow.

People put their money where their heart is.

You are used to being in loveless relationships that you don’t even mind that your girlfriend doesn’t gift you on special days or randomly.

Do you now see why it is easy for her to break up with you? It is because financially, she’s not invested in the relationship, so it is easy for her to walk away.

You, on the other hand, can’t leave easily because you have invested so much. And when she eventually leaves, you’ll start crying wolf and calling women names. Saying all sorts of things that, when interpreted, would mean, “After all I did for her, she left me.” And she’ll also dribble you around with the same logic that, when interpreted, would mean, “Did I ask you?”

And you know what? She’ll be right.

She didn’t ask. You just kept pouring into someone who didn’t care about you enough to reciprocate.

If you like, don’t pity yourself. You are not in a relationship.

[TOBOH🪖 @Tobzzy212]

$200k confirm
I go first text my ex beg am for airtel card 500 make she think say my life don spoil 😂💔.

[𝑫𝒖𝑲𝒆! @whotfisDuke]

Dating a woman who is easily accessible to other men is so embarrassing

[Maliq @MasterMaliq]

Want Sharia law? Stay in Saudi Arabia.

Hate dogs? Afghanistan is there.

Can't stand pigs? Pakistan is there.

Want an Islamic state? Iran is there.

Want strict Islamic dress rules? Iran is there.

Want child marriage tolerated? Yemen is there.

Can't tolerate non-Muslims? There are plenty of Muslim-majority countries.

But don't come to the US, UK or Europe and demand that everyone else lives by your religion.

You chose to come here.

Respect the laws, or stay where the laws already match your beliefs.

[The Villain Formerly Known As Hani 🏴 @VagrantVillain]

Instead of teaching your sons how to avoid getting falsely accused of rape, maybe you should start teaching your daughters to not lie about getting raped

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

THIS IS FOR MEN!!

Every married man with common sense should have cameras in their homes now. Not for thieves. For his own wife.

I have them in my bedroom, kitchen, living room, everywhere even in my storage room. Because I know the second I don't, the moment she pulls the victim card, my life is OVER.

I love my wife. I trust my wife. But I will NEVER trust the victim card. That card lives inside every woman, waiting to be played.

Women don't need it because their words are their evidence. Now,

All WOMEN, I repeat, ALL WOMEN hate the same two things: SHAME and ACCOUNTABILITY.

Every single one. Your mom, your wife, your daughter, that sweet girl online. Same SOFTWARE.

Have a real fight with your sweet, innocent wife and watch what happens. The mask drops. The first move is always the same - protect her image, flip the story, make YOU the villain.

Women's greatest weapon is not beauty. It's INNOCENCE. Society is programmed to believe women are weak, fragile, harmless. So when she cries, the world rushes to save her. No questions asked.

That damsel in distress privilege is worth more than gold to them. They will never give it up. So they will lie, twist, cry rape, cry abuse, cry whatever it takes to keep that halo clean.

You haven't married a different woman. You've just never pushed her far enough to see it. Protect yourself. ALL WOMEN HAVE THE SAME SOFTWARE.

[Blvck_kaka🦍 @kakaofph1]

"No worry make una eat the cake sugar no good for my health"
Na that line my papa take deceive us just to make sure e reach everybody..🥲❤️‍🩹

[HONITEL👑 @HonitelHQ]

Nigerian men are always fighting for their rights to pay bills, especially for women who wouldn’t do the same for them.

Your savior complex and provider fetish are the reasons you come online to cry wolf when she eventually breaks up with you and you finally realize that you have been subscribing to be loved.

Few days ago, one babe was ranting on this app because a guy billed her for AirPods. She even changed his name to “imbecile.”

Another lady tweeted that once a man asks her for money, she’ll start seeing him as a woman. She meant that in a derogatory way.

Nigerian women do not hide their disgust and irritation for men who ask them for things. They hate it so much.

I have said it before: when it comes to dating, men (read: Nigerian men) are the most foolish of God’s creatures. The women are logical like mad. It is the men who are emotional, but they’ll never admit this.

Before a woman gifts you, she conditions you. For example:

“I can do it for my man IF I love him.”

“I’ll buy him things IF I like him.”

“IF he treats me like a princess, I’ll reciprocate.”

“IF he provides for me…”

“IF” — there’s always a condition.

Even you that is bragging that your babe bought you a PS5 or a pair of loafers, tell yourself the truth: how many things did you do for her before she considered you worthy of those gifts? Exactly.

Nigerian women mostly gift from the mindset of investment. As she dey do those things for you, few days or weeks later, e get one serious billing wey dey follow am and you go squeeze face chest am.

In your defense, “she just buy me console sha.” So why person wey buy you console two weeks ago dey give you ₦1m billing all of a sudden?

It was all part of the plan.

The crazy thing about this whole thing is that the babes no even rate una like that o.

I have seen women on social media say that when their men changed their phones, they quickly added money and swapped them so that, in case they break up, he wouldn’t have the right or even think of taking it back.

It is only Nigerian men who pay their girlfriends’ school fees. Especially international school fees.

Only Nigerian men will go an entire year without doing anything nice for themselves but will make sure their babes are well to do.

I wanted to ask, “Do you think the babe you are fighting for your right to change her phone will do the same for you?”

I didn’t know when that cracked me up because do you even think a babe who knows you cannot afford to change your phone by yourself will date you in the first place?

You are in your mid-20s, dating a babe in her early 20s. You don’t work a salary job, but somehow, you are expected to change phones of over ₦400k+ because you are a boyfriend.

Later, you’ll come crying, “After all I did for her.”

No worry. Keep fighting for your life to chest unnecessary bills. Na you guide pass.

But just know say all the money wey you dey lavish on babe wey no really send you like that na the school fees for the lesson wey she go later teach you.

Jaiye lo.

[Chidimma @The_Chidimma]

The dating pool is full of women trying to be taken care of, not enjoy the man and it’s sad af.

[Kait Willett @KaitWillett]

The most thoughtful people I know are men

The most loving people I know are men

The wisest people I know are men

The most willing to inconvenience themselves for someone else’s benefit - men

The people who complain the least - men

The ones who give without requiring acknowledgement - men

I refuse to sit here and pretend the narratives online about men are reflective of the majority

Men are amazing and wayyy more valuable than they are painted out to be

watching how they are spoken to, spoken about, and blatantly disrespected is bothersome to say the least

[OC👾 @theyfwoc]

Stages of X:

1. You create an X account.

2. You didn’t understand it

3. So you left for a few months.

4. Then you returned

5. Now you are addicted and can’t go a day without it.

Repost if this was you 😂

[justpsycho @justpsychoyey7]

Wait.. THIS Is what we Compared with LAMINE YAMAL?!😭

[MrBanks💰 @Mrbankstips]

My kind of focus

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

So a lot of times I hear Ladies say things like..

“Men love being providers, it makes them feel good when they’re able to provide”

Then when it’s time to state what makes them(women) feel good, they start listing what Men should do for them again.

I’m like.. If a Man doing something for YOU makes HIM feel good, shouldn’t what makes you feel good be something you do for your Man too ?

But I get it if you don’t get it.. Y’all are so soaked in self-centeredness that all you want to do is RECEIVE either-ways, so i’ll just speak to the Men instead….

If your girl is stating things that makes her happy/feel good and it’s all about things you should be doing for her(as against what she does for you)

Re-evaluate that union bro.

[Bólúwatifẹ́ 🥷🏾 @tifemmy_]

Good Morning @officialABAT

Please don’t Renew my Hope 😭🤲🏻

E don do

[Benson @BNXN]

Greetings my ski @AlikoDangote

I just put out a new song titled “Online” and I hope our company staff and shareholders can play it at work today.

Love my ski , you too much🫡❤️

[Dax @thatsdax]

I apologize for interrupting your scrolling, but if you're holding your phone right now, join me in typing... Lord, please do it for me.

[Moriö @moriostaT]

It’s so crazy that you spend your money trying to make her happy while she’s saving hers.

[Adaeze @Ada_mamasita]

If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷‍♀️