You will never be able to grow with someone who doesn't have the ability, the capacity, or the willingness to self-reflect on what they did wrong to YOU, because without self-reflection there is no self-awareness, and without self-awareness, there is no room for genuine empathy, compassion, honesty, or accountability to exist.
A LOT of MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
One thing people get wrong about me is thinking because I don’t react immediately, I don’t notice. Oh, I notice EVERYTHING. I just don’t believe every situation deserves an argument. Sometimes I let people keep talking. I let them keep lying. I let them keep pretending… because eventually everybody tells on themselves. By the time they think they got away with it, I’ve already accepted who they are and started moving accordingly. Silence don’t always mean weakness… sometimes it means your access is quietly being revoked.
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet almost peaceful detachment. ✨
I IMPLORE women to familiarize yourself with high level redpill/manosphere ideology, tools, and tactics so that you can clock it when you see/hear it. We are on spooky times. Stay vigilant!
i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you