A woman was in a coma in the hospital, and she was continuously raped until she got pregnant. The hospital found out and carried out investigations and found out a male employee has been raping her all the while she was in coma.
A 3 year old baby was raped by a grown man.
A homeless mad woman on the street was raped by a man.
A lady who was fully covered was raped by a man.
A lady who was sleeping on her bed in her own home was raped and killed.
A daughter was raped by her own father.
I can go on and on…
But once these heartbreaking stories make it to the media, some of you immediately start looking for ways to blame the victim, talking about
“women need to learn how to avoid being abused”
“Maybe she’s this, maybe she’s that”
Are you people crazy?
Instead of teaching men that no matter what, even if they see a woman walking naked, they still have no right to touch or abuse or rape her.
The women in all the scenarios above, how exactly were they supposed to avoid being raped?
Make it make sense.
#SayNoToRape
Men romanticize “traditional values” because back then many women couldn’t leave. No bank account. No property rights. No independent income. Divorce carried shame. Marital rape wasn’t even recognized. Abuse was hidden under “keep your family together.”
So when some of these men say they “miss traditional women,” what they often miss is a system where women had fewer choices,less protection and more pressure to endure suffering quietly.