@runningonpetals Both of these ideas could work parallely or even be one altogether, but nonetheless, this rederick of misogynists being closeted gays harms everyone, not just gays.
Sexualising vows, correlating misoginy with homosexuality, polarising and demonising allyism is bad for all of us.
@runningonpetals "If you're nice to this group of people is because you want to fuck"
It has grown into a wider view, one-size-fits-all sexualisation of vows.
And on it's backside, for retaliation, "if you're not nice to this group (A) is because you want to fuck yours (B)" Was made
@runningonpetals And because of that, the common rethoric of Incels being closeted gay men who only want men has been globalised for the entire collective of misogynists - which is leading to the normalisation of "I'm only nice to the gender I fuck"
@runningonpetals And as time has passed, the global polarisation that we're all facing (this lack of diversity in perspective where you're either A or B and there's no in between) has caused these two groups to be bundled up together by the general public