The whole “everyone should just be they/them” discussion I had to endure from another trans man who actively used they/them to me to my face despite knowing my probouns is circling in my head too so it’s likeeeeee!!!
It is hard not to feel kinda bad about not being trans enough when people avoid nuanced gender discussion with me over taking in circles with other cis people. Or when other trans people actively misgender me or degender me.
Static of Theseus: if a casual static takes too long to clear a raid and its members gradually leave and get replaced by new members until all 8 original members are gone, is it still the same static?