My partner and I had to spend a lot of time with him learning how I am. He used to think I hated being around him and I had to explain to him I just sometimes need to recharge so I can enjoy you MORE.
Neurodivergent women need quality alone time. To be weird. To dance or sing in her room. To unmask and recharge in whatever neurospicy way she pleases. There can be severe consequences like burnout, chronic illness, and poor coping mechanisms when she doesn't do this.
Every time I panic about taking off work for my partner being in the hospital right now I remember my rent is paid for next month from an absolute angel and I can breathe again ๐ฅบ
People claiming that pups/pets donโt belong at pride because itโs โkink gearโ is the most uneducated statement Iโve ever read. Leather gear, latex, and BDSM apparel are ALL kink and ALL supported at pride. They even have groups of kinksters in the parade. WE BELONG ๐๐ผ
Someone donated over $4 grand to my gofundme yesterdayโฆthat money will catch me up in a way I havenโt seen in 2 yearsโฆโฆ
Idk what angel helped me but dear god I needed this and I will not waste this opportunity
scolding hot take but if more SWs would respond to men online the way they would if they werenโt getting paid, men wouldnโt have grown so comfortable speaking to us however they like.
We create the environment they meet us in, can we start demanding more respect?