Idk.. u either PUT UP by a dude and out the way, fine and not deprived, or online promoting ya self as a commodity with no track record of being treated how u promote it.
Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted