Maybe this time in my life was to show me the fruits of all the emotional work I’ve put in over the past few years?
I have an even deeper appreciation for “chosen family” now. And more love towards the few decent men still in my life.
I’m learning that the true hard part about finding a life partner is more about you and the other person wanting the same thing, at the same time. Not whether yall love each other.
@Physsss_ *in British accwnt* the male Holland Spider is now doing a dance to attract a female mate. Though it will a long journey for our pair, the mating dance, done only in wet, rainy climates, seems to have been successful
People at the very end say, “I voted 3rd party but I’m not in a swing state. If you’re in one of those, vote for Kamala” is hilarious. I get it, I’m scared too lol.
But as for me, fuck boffem. I’m willing to fight (and die) about it + I’ll be on the ground building regardless.
Grounding in the fact that I do the work so that when bad things happen, I know how to protect and take care of myself.
Not “If I do the work really hard, bad things will not happen anymore.”