Anytime a man is imagining himself as a woman, it’s always in a soft girl, a baddie, a working class madam. It’s never a submissive wife, a full time house wife or a mother of 7.
We all know what we are doing
Can you see what a Muslim man is doing? Literally saving pictures of women on his phone? He's doing worse than women and see how men are NOT calling him out?
Always be there for sisters who don't wear hijab or post pictures, men support each other for worse.
After all the sallah celebration is over. We will do a bwest card thread 🧵 I've saved every single one 😂😂 these girls need to learn the hard way make them no do am next year. 😂
You’re telling me I have to write in my flipping nikkah I want to see my mother in daylight hours on Eid. Keeping your wife as a slave isn’t a pillar of Islam and a lot of you should not even think of marriage if this is how you think.
@koladevisuals Why would a man even be on social media in the first place when he has been commanded to lower his gaze.
It doesn't matter if a woman is naked, a man must not look.
My Dear Sister-in-Islam,
When the chest is exposed but the head is covered, it is not Ḥijāb.
When the head is covered but the body is wrapped in tight-fitted clothing that seductively reveals the shape of the body, it is not Ḥijāb.
When the hair is concealed but beauty, adornment and attraction are deliberately displayed for attention, it is not Ḥijāb.
When the garment itself becomes a means of showing off, competing for attention and seeking admiration, it departs from the spirit of Ḥijāb.
When modesty disappears from speech, conduct and interaction, cloth alone does not complete Ḥijāb.
Ḥijāb is not merely a scarf on the head; it is modesty in dress, dignity in conduct, humility in movement and consciousness of Allāh in public and private.
True Ḥijāb is a garment of faith, modesty and honour.
When you adorn the Hijāb, do it properly, understand and observe its etiquettes so that Allah recognizes you as one of those who sincerely obey His command.
Say no to polygamy.
There is no benefit for the woman.
In the past one could say it was necessary but men that practice it today, sorry to say, are selfish and wicked.
I’m here to sha remind women about my own agenda for them to be as intentional about their own rights too as men have shown to do & will always do. In this life, it’s Allaah first, then YOURSELF.
If you like, accept fātihah for your mahr. If you like, don’t be insistent on getting provided for in terms of all your essentials, including cooking utensils & other similar items to help you settle that they’ve culturally turned to you & your family’s responsibility (yes I’m stubborn & repetitive. Cry 🌚). If you like, don’t pursue your halal financial independence (which doesn’t have to be office job, and which he absolutely doesn’t have the right to stop you from). If you like, stay & endure all sorts of nonsense that internally kills you & cause you unbearable harm you because of all the gaslighting about divorce (of course only when necessary).
At the end of the day, both men and women cannot do without the other, no matter how much these folks try to make you think it’s just a feminine issue. “Nobody will marry you”, I promise you nobody will marry them too if y’all stand on business & start being similarly intentional about your desires and rights. “Marriage is not just about rights”, lol, I pity you. Classic كلمت حق يراد بها باطل.
Half a word is enough for the wise sha. May Allaah rectify us all and may he grant good people good people and only allow the demons across both aisles to find one another.
So why aren't you answering her question? Or do you believe Allah (SWT) is a man?
Everyone is complaining but she asked a reasonable question - if we use 'He' & Allah is not a man, why can't 'She' be used? It's from historical & linguistic convention but why can't it now be used?
The men that send their wives and kids to beg on the road are mostly Hausa/Northern men no? majority of men in Nigeria (especially in the north) are poor so that means Hausa men are unable to provide. So what exactly are Hausa men doing for Hausa women?
The men that send their wives and kids to beg on the road are mostly Hausa/Northern men no? majority of men in Nigeria (especially in the north) are poor so that means Hausa men are unable to provide. So what exactly are Hausa men doing for Hausa women?
There is a reason why Hausa women should not follow the train of women bashing Hausa men.
The moment you cross the river at Kogi, you’d see women hustling like men. Some of the work these women engage in, some men cannot do.
Across the river, struggling for daily living is everyone’s business— men, women, children.
The same way you are posting and tweeting for strangers.
You're already getting sins from angering people and by angering people you're getting evil eyes.
I genuinely don’t understand how girls don’t feel uneasy posting themselves for strangers. There’s literally nothing you gain from it, except multiple sins and maybe evil eyes.