And NO MATTER what I go through in public or private. Imma still think I CANT BE FUCKED WITH🤦🏾♀️You can bring up my past, my mistakes, my flaw, or any gossip/rumor & IM STILL GONE WALK AROUND on all ten HAPPY ASF and UNBOTHERED fr!!! 💯
I’m strict about my boundaries because every time I wasn’t, I paid the price. I let the wrong people get too close, I gave too many chances, and I ignored what I already knew. All it ever did was drain me. That’s a lesson I refuse to learn again.
I don't trust people who believe there's nothing about themselves that they need to change. That makes zero sense to me. You can be a genuinely good person, but there are always behaviors and mentalities you need to actively unlearn, and there are always things about yourself that you need to work on. There is always room for growth and improvement as long as you are alive. Acknowledging this doesn't mean you have to be self-deprecating at all. Honest yet gentle constructive criticism about yourself is essential to maintaining healthy relationships and living your best life. It is how you hold yourself accountable for the harm you cause yourself and others.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn't less love. Check in not out.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
i love that i am not a mean girl im cool as hell until provoked.. i don’t go out my way to pick with nobody nor am i stuck up or feel like I’m better than anyone! I do what works for me & love on who loves on me 💕