I really wish people would stop telling me "your problem is you keep doing this" like yes I know exactly what my bad habits are in smash. That doesn't help.That's only like 50% of the problem. The other 50% is because I dont know what I can do so I default back into my bad habits
@SuperTiso I appreciate you saying that. I dont want to let them know day zero cause to me it is too much but i just need to be careful of signs and be more careful and if I see things that show that that not looking for something more I gotta be upfront
@SuperTiso Again 100% that's why it's genuinely hard. If I dont ask them right away (which is a deterrent like you said) I think I just have to be very very careful unfortunately. Like I have to make sure they are clearly making moves to actually want to be with me
@SuperTiso Yeah I already found that out years ago too. I guess what I have to do is if I see anybody seem interested in me I have to be the one to be like "what are your intentions" even if I shouldnt have to cause fwb shouldn't be an assumption
@SuperTiso I guess. Like if you want a fwb with someone you should state that at the start. Nothing wrong with two people wanting fwb , but there needs to be communication. So yea as I grow older people are being more and more high school level