A retired marriage therapist was asked what the worst and best marriage advice is most commonly given to couples.
He replied: "I wish this message could reach as many couples as possible."
He started with the best advice....
Husband: “He doesn’t look like me… I want a paternity/DNA test.”
Wife: “So after 12 years, you think I cheated?”
Husband: “If you’ve got nothing to hide, it shouldn’t matter.”
DNA test comes back… he’s the father.
Husband: “See? Now I have peace of mind.”
Wife: “And now I have clarity. I’m leaving.”
Middle Son: “Mom… why does Dad hate me?”
Husband: “You’re divorcing me… over a test?”
Wife: “No. I’m divorcing you because you looked at your own child and saw doubt… and looked at your wife and saw betrayal.”
Months later…
Husband: “Can we spend Christmas together… as a family?”
Son: “No.”
Wife: “He deserves to be around people who make him feel loved.”
Even later…
Husband: “Why is everyone treating me like I’m the bad guy?”
Everyone: “Because the DNA test proved he was your son… but your actions proved you weren’t acting like his father.”
A retired marriage counselor revealed what causes husbands to lose respect and attraction for the women they once chased.
She said, "It usually comes down to 8 quiet behaviors women repeat every day."
Every woman needs to hear this…
Nobody prepared me for how low my libido got after childbirth. After the usual six weeks healing stage, I noticed I don’t even want my husband to hug me, I can practically give you flying heading if you talk about sex to me.
I read that the 6 weeks is just for physical healing, you have to give yourself time. That was how three months passed and I still wasn’t feeling myself, uncle did not know how to approach me because I was always looking angry.
By the fifth month, I realized something was off, I don’t even want my husband anywhere close to me. I had to seek help from my doctor and truly, something was wrong.