For those who knew her, I just received word that my friend, Kat, has passed away. She had been battling cancer for many years.
Kat was a pioneer in the online ABDL community. She was featured in the documentary “The 15 Stone Babies” and ran the website — DiaperKitten . com — in the early 2010s.
I met her at the Chicago Ageplay Convention in 2013. She mentored me and taught me a great deal over the last thirteen years.
Two years ago, she called me seeking help moving back to Colorado to seek specialized cancer treatment. Thank you to all who helped fundraise for her. I was grateful for the opportunity to fly down, rent a moving truck, and drive with her across the country to get her there.
She was a fighter. She was also wise and beautiful, and she loved cats.
Thank you Mommy Kat for all you taught me. I hope that there are cats to greet you in heaven.
She and I,
we each had one:
an emotional support taco.
Growing up, for her
tacos were love
and safety
and family.
As she grew sick,
it was harder to eat,
so I bought her one
to stay by her side.
She brought it
with her to
every doctor visit:
every chemo,
every transfusion,
every prodding,
every poking.
During her last hospital stay,
the one she never left —
I hope she had by her side
her one and only
emotional support taco.
Today with me
is Cicero the Bee.
He is quite the orator
— and no fan of
snakes named Catiline.
Buzzing about,
he will tell you
everything he thinks.
Self-important? Sure.
An ego big for his size.
But some thoughts
and observations
may be profound,
and often delivered
with alluring alliteration
and clever turns of phrase.
@Thewanderershir Here’s a funny story from that day:
A little boy came into the café.
He looked over at us and declared that we were both named “Bobby.”
So now, me and my friend joke that we are Bobby 1 and Bobby 2.
@Thewanderershir I was having coffee with my friend, Glitter Princess.
I feel safer to have little things with me when I’m with a friend who knows me.
This poem and picture are actually from several weeks ago, but I brought it over from my Instagram.
Life is funny.
It was sad to lose
this cat to others.
But if we had
taken her home,
then we would have
never adopted the
two puppies that
enrich our life today.
Every loss makes space
for new opportunities
you don’t predict.
After losing our cat, Peter Pan, two months ago, my partner and I were finally ready to explore adopting again.
Today, we went to a cat cafe and we bonded with this beautiful cat named “Venus.” She had been a stray and she was very picky about who she spent time with. She immediately took a liking to my partner and gradually warmed up to me.
Meanwhile, there was another couple during the same session that a different cat took a liking to. Venus avoided them.
They seemed nice enough. We made pleasant small talk, but they left early (halfway thigh the session) and adopted Venus from under our nose.
This cat clearly chose us, but they had seen a picture of her before coming in and decided they wanted her — despite her lack of interest in them.
I feel heart broken. :-(
@Thewanderershir All my Jellycats are the spiritual reincarnations of Roman figures.
Cato
Caesar
Pompey
Cicero
Lucretia
Juvenal
Aurelius
Antony
Cleopatra (technically Egyptian)
Lao (Chinese…)
Okay, so not all of them.
For those who knew her, I just received word that my friend, Kat, has passed away. She had been battling cancer for many years.
Kat was a pioneer in the online ABDL community. She was featured in the documentary “The 15 Stone Babies” and ran the website — DiaperKitten . com — in the early 2010s.
I met her at the Chicago Ageplay Convention in 2013. She mentored me and taught me a great deal over the last thirteen years.
Two years ago, she called me seeking help moving back to Colorado to seek specialized cancer treatment. Thank you to all who helped fundraise for her. I was grateful for the opportunity to fly down, rent a moving truck, and drive with her across the country to get her there.
She was a fighter. She was also wise and beautiful, and she loved cats.
Thank you Mommy Kat for all you taught me. I hope that there are cats to greet you in heaven.
Branch by branch,
higher and higher.
Look down and see
the children still small
and the children all grown.
They all look so small
atop this tree so big.
Perhaps they too
wish they could be
so bold,
so agile,
so free.
Climb to the treetop
and you too can see.
I will be putting my account back on private in the near future, but I thought people would appreciate knowing about the passing of @littlemeow333.
She was a pioneer of this community. I think she deserves the recognition.
@liltinkleloser She was one of the first women online who seemed to be doing this work — not because she was a model who was hired to do a “kink thing” — but because this was actually genuinely her thing she loved sharing with others.
@FoxPrinceTheo Her site in the early 2010's was so special to me as I explored this kink and myself. She brought a joy to things that was unmatched at the time. I'm so sorry to hear we lost her like this and that she has so many troubles along the way.