If your bd don’t help you financially, physically or at tf all. Put his ass on child support! We don’t wanna hear that sh!t about how yall don’t have help and support . Idgaf if he don’t have a job, still put him on there for just in case he thinks about a job in the future. If he files taxes, it’s going to YOU. If he dies, it’s going to YOU! If he gets in a wreck or any type of insurance money , it’s GOING TO YOU!! If he wants to go out the country, he needs permission from YOU! Moral of story is, life too short to be crying about deadbeats or saying “ you don’t need his money” . Why tf you have a kid with him then?? CHILD SUPPORT IMMEDIATELY.
One thing about it, I don’t play when it comes to kids, we may have an issue but I’ll never treat a child bad because of how I feel about their parent. Kids are innocent and shouldn’t be brought into adult situations but idk, that’s just me.☝🏽💯
1 of the biggest flexes a woman with kids can have is being a great mother! Idc what goes on all I care about is making things right with my kids and being there every step until I’m no longer here! You can keep everything else my babies the only ones I got some to prove to!