A married woman should not have more than 3 close female friends.
And all the female friends must be married and believe in the sanctity of marriage.
Any married woman with too many females as friends may ruin her marriage sooner or later.
End.
Be your husband's cheerleader.
Not his enabler.
If you enable him, he will resent you but pretends that he loves you.
If you're his cheerleader, he will be motivated by your praises, honor, submission & respect.
And he will strive hard not to fail you and the children.
End.
I should wait for chips to be down before you become responsible in the home? It is your father's chips that will be down.
I'm not that type of Igbo man.
The whole point of marriage is to do life together. From the very beginning to the end, we are sorting bills together. If chips wan fall, make e fall on two of us.
Few years ago, before I got my desired data analysis job in the UK 🇬🇧 , I had :
1) 207 unfortunately emails
2) 26 Unsuccessful interviews
Today, I’m a Senior Data Scientist in the UK 🇬🇧.
Every successful person is a product of failure.
Don’t give up 🤦♀️ on your dreams.
Henceforth, i am rating only those who rate me. Moving forward, i am giving loyalty to only where i see same energy and in all, i dey dey for only who dey for me. Na wetin i see, i go reciprocate.
This should be my new resolution and i don’t have to wait till a new year.
"I support my man in every little way, I can support."
"No matter how little, but something for your man."
"How can you close your eyes and watch your man pay all the bills? Even if it is Maggi for soup, do something, no matter how little"
Na that "little" I no want. I dey forbid am. Why is every financial input you want to make in your relationship and marriage "little?" I want my partner's support in every way possible. You dey forbid to do big thing? Where is the partnership?
You're an adult. I expect you to behave like an adult and that includes, sorting bills.
While idiots were busy fighting for their right to enable irresponsibility in their parents,the people who understand the point i was trying to make will always understand.
I don't care whether life happened to your parents or not, if they cant provide for you, THEY FAILED YOU.
Being TOTALLY plain and open-minded with everyone is an admirable human trait meant ONLY for realms where you have people who are just like you, not for a realm like this earth where not everyone is happy for you as the good, bad and ugly dwell side by side.
Do not tell everything that is in your heart out. That is not being dishonest, it is being wise, it is called self preservation.