HOW TO EARN RESPECT:
1. Do not call anyone more than twice.
2. Do not be more friendly than necessary with anyone.
3. Do not share your personal goals with people who don't support you.
4. Talk less observe more.
5. Do not let anyone know your next move.
6. Build multiple income streams to secure your independence.
7. If it's not necessary to speak stay silent.
8. Do only what aligns with your principles.
9. If someone has added value to your life never forget to show gratitude.
10. Never argue to prove your worth let your results speak for you.
This is for someone who needs this right now:
You canโt force people to see your worth
or to honor it.
But you can walk away.
And sometimes, walking away
is the clearest statement of value youโll ever make.
Silence can be alignment.
Distance can be wisdom.
Leaving can be obedience.
Donโt stay where youโre tolerated
when youโre called to be valued.
The hard truth most men are too weak to admit:
Marriages lasted longer in the past because wives rarely denied their husbands sex. Today men beg their wives for sex.
The moment a man has to beg his wife for sex, his love for her crashes from 80 to 20 instantly.
Most married men stay in their marriages today because of their children, not because of their wives.
A man will risk far more and do far worse to get good sex than he will ever do just to make money.
Men love sex more than they love money BUT Women enjoy sex more than men do.
That is the raw reality.
Fathers, remember to validate your children. Tell them that they are unique. Tell them that they are special. Tell them that they will be great. Tell them that they are smart and can achieve anything they set their minds to. Tell them they are good natured. Tell them you love them.
Hearing it from you, their father, they will confidently go out into the world and live your words. They will work their hardest to become everything you professed them to be.
I am Ezemmuo. I know things.
I called a married lady who was owing me money, but she didn't pick my calls.
I called 10 times more, still no answer. Knowing that her husband was not at home, I decided to send her this message:
"Hi Lady, I'm not calling for the money. I just wanted to tell you that 2 girls were fighting over your husband in town today. It was a big match and he was just there watching, until one of the girl managed to escape into his car and they drove off".
After some minutes, she called me but I ignored her. She kept calling and I found 21 missed calls from her and a message which read:
Where was the fightโ๏ธ
Where did they go?โ๏ธ
Did you Noticed those girlsโ๏ธ
Please tell me, I am falling apart."
I just read and didn't respond. She called again, 5 times and I didn't answer, then another message from her:
"I have your money, please can we meet, so you tell me moreโ๏ธ"
Then i replied, "Okay, you can send it via payshap so that I can pass by the garage to refil, then I will pick you and drive you to one of the Girl's bouse because I know them."
After 2 mins, I checked my account balance, my money was fully paid.
I then switched off my phone and slept like a baby.
This January you need to be sharp.
Abbreviations in Corporate World
1. WFH - Work From Home
2. F2F โ Face-to-Face Interview
3. NDA โ Non-Disclosure Agreement
4. CTC - Cost to Company
5. ATS - Applicant Tracking System
6. TAT - Turn Around Time
7. JD - Job Description
8. CC โ Culture Check / Cultural Fit
9. HRM - Human Resource Manager
10. BGV โ Background Verification
11. Hybrid โ Partial remote + office
12. FYI โ For Your Information
13. EOD โ End of Day
14. HM - Hiring Manager
15. OQ - Overqualified
16. HRD: Human Resources and Development
17. KPI: Key Performance Indicator
18. PTO: Paid Time Off
19. OL / OLR โ Offer Letter / Offer Letter Release
20. WFO โ Work From Office