Akosua_Frema

Softie💄💅🏿, Quality Assurance Enthusiast, Agbafian

[kweku Jo @Kweku75]

Consistency
Little things can grow .
Brick by brick. It’s a marathon.
Started this portfolio in March 2025.
Volatility is my friend

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Okay, let us do this again.

If you're a single lady between the ages of 25-35.

Please post your picture under this.

State your:

1. Tribe
2. Location
3. Religion
4. Genotype

Be ready to receive DMs from men who may be interested, and good luck to you.

Amen 🙏.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

What I know is this.

When a man finds his wife, he will know.

Nobody needs to tell him that.

But if the woman that you want to marry is your ex that has gone ahead to date or sleep with other men, you have not found your wife yet.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If your mother is a divorcee, she's mostly not the best person to give you marriage advice.

If your father is a divorcee, he's still very qualified to give you marriage advise.

Women build homes, men lead homes.

If a builder fails, the leader will have no home to lead.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Dear young men,

Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.

This is how you know that you may have found your wife:

1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.

2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.

3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.

4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.

5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.

6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.

7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.

8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.

9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.

10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.

11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.

12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.

13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.

14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.

15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.

If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.

And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.

End.

[Akosua_Frema @FremaSifa]

@GloriousGod01 Exactly. And I know he’s not going to listen.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I am not a spiritualist, neither am I a pastor.

Go and DM a spiritualist or a pastor to solve your problem for you.

You, your girlfriend, your parents and her parents are all ignorant.

End.

[Simons @Simon_Ingari]

Stop using "please find attached" in your emails.

Here's what to say instead:

[Freyy @Freyy_is]

managers will spend months making work miserable, then look around confused when people start leaving.

[Jobs with Aramide @AramideOyekunle]

By all means if you can avoid working for a sole proprietorship firm where the Founder/CEO is directly involved with the affairs of the company.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Most women who get married because of money, will become the providers in the long run.

If you don't sit down to analyze and research the legitimate job or career that your fiancé is doing, you'll mostly likely regret getting married to him.

Stop banking on false hopes & short term gains.

A man is supposed to be your provider in marriage.

Look at what he's doing for a living.

Don't be deceived by the little money that he's flashing on your face.

Sustainable and consistent income is better than sudden income.

Look for a legitimate hardworking young man to date and stay committed to him and hope for the best.

Make sure that the age gap is not more than 5 years.

10 years is a stretch.

Men love marriage and they need marriage as much as you do.

And most men love to marry early enough.

If you see the ones that are above 35 and still single, please do not get carried away.

Vet them very well and know what you're going into.

Even if they're rich, still vet them and ask the right questions and not allow the money to blindside you.

You're not the first woman that has dated them.

And since women love money, why do you think those ones that he dated did not get married to him.

Or you think that you have a special breed toto abi?

Your eye go clear.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Please read the conversation that I had with a 31 year old married woman.

Ensure that you read to the last screenshot 👇

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

This foolish & ungrateful husband & father will regret ever trying to attack my brand.

All the "enemies" that he hoped would engage on his posts because he announced that he's no longer an Agbafian, have left him behind.

He has 55k followers that I built for him ooo.

😂😂😂

[Presh Lee🥰✨ @Presh__lee]

I will never settle for a yahoo boy.

I will never settle for a mummy's boy.

I will never settle for a 50:50 man.

I will never settle for a misogynist.

I will never settle for a fat man.

I will never settle for a poor man.

I will never settle for a short man.

[Akosua_Frema @FremaSifa]

@jon_d_doe Agba please we’re 2 in Ghana🥺🥺

[Chefabbys @chefabbys]

Tbh this is all you need for stew. Just blend ❤️ any kind of stew at all

[𝐈𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞 𝐊𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐠 @iamklausenberg]

Women have this "disease" where they see an emotionally unattached man and begin to feel like they can "change" him.

Stop having such thoughts.

Go for a man who has shown you selflessness through his consistent involvement.

You deserve real love.

Learn or you'll lose 🫵🏾

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

A man doesn't necessarily have to say "I am sorry" to his woman.

That's how men are built.

Men apologise more in their actions than in words.

It's left for you as a woman to spot it when he's apologizing.

If you keep waiting for "I am sorry", you may wait in vain.

End.

[𝐈𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞 𝐊𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐠 @iamklausenberg]

Single ladies who had hoped they'd get married by the year's end.

Listen, if your goals weren't met. Don't be too hard on yourself.

Things will not always work the way you've planned it

Just take time to improve yourself while you wait

E go sup!

Learn or you'll lose 🫵🏾

[Glorious God @GloriousGod01]

Dear men please know this today: Women love money. And a woman looking at your financial capability is not synonymous with less love.

No matter how good a woman is, how contented, how much she has been able to tame her greed, please give her money when you can.

As long as she has earned her place in your life and is not entitled, please give her money.

There's no woman in this world who doesn't love money. Even the woman who's making her own money is usually very happy when you spend on her.

Give her money!

Above all, love God.