sometimes I don’t want an apology. I want you to experience the exact situation you put me through so I can see if you still think that the shit was okay. 🧐
a girl on tiktok said “healing is so hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child who is scared and just wants safety.... your inner teenager who is angry and just wants justice.... and your current self-who is tired and just wants peace." and it hits me hard.
being a self-aware person doesn't mean i view myself as a good person. i think a lot of people get that confused. it literally means that i am vigilant of both my light and dark side. i have also made peace with my flaws even though i'm always working through them
this man on tiktok said “youcannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior” and that’s real shit.
It comes down to the psychology. If a woman notices you’re inconsistent in your words or action over a period of time she will naturally not trust you to lead. You can lead anyone if you first and foremost cannot lead yourself. Us women are built to notice this.