"People often think that something "far off" will make them happy. That moving to a new place or getting a different job or meeting someone new will change how they feel. But happiness will always be withheld if you believe it is somewhere else.
A simple question that can prevent a lot of future headaches:
What is not being said right now that needs to be said? What problems could we avoid in the future, if only we had the courage to talk about them now?