President @officialABAT is running the Most Useless Government in the history of Useless Governments!!!
How many more Nigerians have to die due to this abysmal level of incompetence?
Nigerians wake up everyday to lament one tragedy of the other.
Unbearably heart-wrenching!!!
Men are just as entitled as women, but we are not truly ready for this conversation.
Women often feel entitled to a man's money and attention, while men feel entitled to SEX and understanding.
You people should stop the generalization on this app, abeg.
If you want to fight against r@p£, do it with your full chest. Which one is "all men are r@p!sts" ?
Remember we have fathers and brothers too, does that mean they’re r@p!sts as well?
No sane person will watch that video and not see that something is wrong, whether man or woman.
Everything is not gender w@r!
@peace_igho ~ Hear me out , it’s from both ends but it’s preferable the man shows too much love than the lady because men don’t back down and would always go for what they love…but women won’t be able to handle the emotional stress
@BlehisBack ~ that’s why I never ask men for anything and will never buy into the idea of asking a man to do stuffs for you…cause if he loves you, he’ll do it without you having to ask!!!
@_Oluwanifemii ~ it’s funny how some people thinks “settling for less” is all about money. This right here , is settling for less!!!…knowing your partner is cheating and you went ahead to tell him what to do
Bro if you’re a Nigerian Man and you’re not married yet
Don’t even bother, these girls are not worth it I promise you ..
It is better to be unmarried than to marry your enemy
@Rajatsoni@__Poisonivyyy ~ this is because men don’t initiate breakups or divorce…if they are no longer interested , they just frustrate you till you’re fed up , so when next they’re moving to another person , they’ll say it was the woman that initiated it.
Being a self aware person doesn't mean i view myself as a good person. i think a lot of people get that confused. it literally means that i am vigilant of both my light and dark side. i have also made peace with my flaws even though i'm always working through them.
Nobody loves you simply because you exist. I have tried repeatedly to explain this reality: human beings are conditional in how we love, and there is nothing inherently wrong with that.
Unconditional love, in the human sense, does not truly exist. Selfless acts are a subset of unconditional love, but they are not unconditional love. If someone attempts to take your life, you will not continue to love them the same way if at all. Only God has the capacity for truly unconditional love.
Parents love their children because they are their children. If that condition did not exist, there would be no reason for them not to love every other child exactly the same way. The sacrifices they make, working, providing, protecting are driven by that relationship. The same principle applies to siblings and extended family: what we do for one another is rooted in shared identity and bonds. These are conditions.
Romantic love is no different. Your spouse or partner loves you because of who you have become, your values, character, discipline, worldview, physical attributes, and how you navigate life. Even when people say “discipline keeps love alive when feelings fade,” that discipline itself is built on earlier conditions that made the relationship worth preserving.
We need to stop deceiving ourselves.
What people often label as “unconditional love” actually removes empathy and fairness when examined closely. You cannot love a beggar who requires constant attention and care the same way you love a billionaire, who requires little from you. Human capacity is limited, and love is naturally distributed based on need, responsibility, proximity, and value systems.
This is why God can bless both the rich and the poor equally. Humans, however, are instinctively drawn to respond first to need. If you help the poor before the rich, that decision is already influenced by a condition, the person’s lack.
So yes, love is conditional.
It always has been.
Pretending otherwise does not make us virtuous, it just makes us dishonest.