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"When you lose a loved one, time heals and you'll eventually get over them".
It's been 10years since I lost my mother, and the truth is, i haven't gotten over it. I've just learned to live with the loss, but some people leave a space in your heart that time simply doesn't erase.
Tiping your office security N1k for buying your lunch, is not you doing him a favour. He earned it. If e easy, stand up from your seat and go get the food yourself. Calculate the financial cost of the stress of going the distance to get the food and back.
If you want to do him a favour, give him money for no reason. Someone would do you a favour, but you would see yourslf as the one doing them a favour because you earn higher than them and don't respect them.
If you send money to your colleague that does the same work with you and asked them to please get you lunch on their way back from wherever they were going, you see it as them doing you a favour because you respect them. You don't see it as a favour done to you when it is done by the office security or cleaner because you don't respect them. If you treat these people well and respect them, they will be happy to do things for you. You've become entitled to their help that you now expect them to use their money to fund your lunch.
My security does errands for me, and every errand comes with a tip. That is thank you for doing this because it is not his job. Favour is when I give him money for no reason which happens often or when he has special needs and makes a request and I give him money. You need to start respecting people as human beings, not by how much they earn. This thing is a common problem in our society.
Are you always this foolish or just a terrible human being? This classism in Nigeria is why we can't move forward.
In your high mindedness and desperate brownnosing to your colleague, you actually thinks she does him a favour giving him N1k tip for sending him on errands. It is not his duty to get her lunch. She can as well get up and go get the lunch herself. Why would you expect a security guy to use his money to buy your drink? That N1k is not a favour. It is payment for service rendered. If you actually had respect people regardless of their position, you won't be spilling this nonsense.
If your colleague is foolish, must you be foolish too? Abi all of you are stupid in your organization? Your responses all over the comments gets more annoying and embarrassing as if you dropped your brain somewhere. You are an extremely very terrible human being.