i haťe to admit it but they were right.. you kind of need to disappear, lock in like crazy, raise your standards, and refuse to lower them to get your dream life.
enjoy the in between. enjoy the space between who you are and who you are becoming. this is the space where you can stop fighting the current and lean in.
there’s nothing that’s been pleasing me more than watching myself do the things i said i’d do. i really value honoring the promises i’ve made to myself.
this is a woman who knows she won't get yelled at for closing his laptop, won't be scolded for interrupting him, won't be ignored, her emotions are prioritized, she feels safe, cared for, loved, and he's treated her like this since the beginning
it takes two to have this. you don't just "marry" a romantic woman, you show her how much you love her every single day and this dynamic will last forever. otherwise you lose her
I avoid settlers. People who settle with life, jobs, wages, a weight they hate, their environment, etc. Passion and extreme ambition fuels me. Change fuels me.
Before you sleep, ask God to give you grace during the waiting period. Think about it like a waiting room, and know that God is never late. God sees and hears your prayers and He will heal, provide, lead, and save. While you wait, seek His face, read the word and trust in God.