To the men out there, when you make a woman pregnant and you tell her to keep the pregnancy, do everything you can to stand by her in that journey.
These women risk everything to bring these humans to life. The least you can do is stand by and support her.
As a man and a dad, I will always say this: I still don’t believe there is any sane man who wakes up one day and becomes a deadbeat without reason. Men love their kids. These little beings always end up being our stress relievers. It’s like you’re sure they’re the only people you can always talk to, and their smiles melt our hearts.
But some people are so evil that they will make these men go through the worst, to the extent of hating themselves and their kids in the end, because it’s too hard to love those kids when you’re not on good terms with the mother. Yet, in some way, everyone always expects a man to stay calm and normal, send school fees, provide the basics, and show up for his kids. But do you know the price they pay for this?
Before you judge anyone, just know that you’re doing it because you’re not the one going through what they’re going through.
As a guy your biggest mistake is loosing yourself when loving a girl. Have the mindset of nothing last forever. Do the things you can do and never forget this! Don’t loose yourself pleasing women.
Dear men, make money. Just make money .
Your insecurities will eat you up alone the older you get .
Imagine fighting to prove a point to yourself and still not getting the ‘validation’
This one hits differently. 😮💨
She said it clear: stop standing in the way of their choices. Let them show you exactly who they are… and then believe it.
No more waiting on the text.
No more rereading old messages looking for proof.
No more fighting for a seat at a table where they already made it clear you don’t belong.
The love was real. The hurt is also real. But staying stuck hoping they’ll suddenly choose you is just self-inflicted damage.
Sometimes the strongest, most loving thing you can do for yourself is step all the way back and let their actions finish the job.
The right one won’t need a speech. They won’t need convincing. They’ll just stay.
Who else needed to hear this today?