Do not let people gaslight you into thinking that duality does not exist. You can be grateful and annoyed. You can want more and be grateful for what you have. You can be angry and frustrated and still be grateful. A lot of religious and spiritual gaslighting out here.
Stop glorifying urgency. Not every dream needs to be chased in panic. Some of what is meant for you will require patience, rhythm, and a nervous system that finally feels safe enough to receive it.
My fav thing about Sex And The City is how a show about 4 well off white women navigating love manages to be relatable for everyone regardless of background. It really shows how love and dating is just complicated for anyone. At some point you’re also every character. Timeless.
what a privilege is it is to afford a gym, buy healthy food, pay bills, have legs that walk, eyes that see, a brain that functions, work every day, and take our bodies to their full potential.
eggs, steak, sweet potatoes, greek yogurt, fruit, vegetables, fish, berries, avocados, and a lot of water. that's basically it. eat like that 90% of the time and you'd burn fat, gain more muscle, and have x10 more energy
Anyway, just want women around me to understand, you need to start aspiring towards financial independence with the exact same urgency society wants you to aspire towards marriage.