i really don’t like too private of a relationship. i find it so weird to not love your partner out loud. no posts, no flirting in the comments, you don’t like or repost their stuff. little stuff like that always been strange to me.
realizing that you’re incompatible with someone (because they don’t meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. look how much you’ve grown.
when jhene said "i used to think i was introverted because I really liked being alone but it turns out that i just like my peace, and i am very extroverted around people who bring me peace." and i felt every word.