You will cry to your man that you're gaining weight and he will buy you ice cream and comfort food to cheer you up.
Then proceed to tell you you're beautiful and that they love you.
They're the real opps.
Healthy eating is not expensive, na you dey find broccoli and iceberg lettuce when waterleaf and ugu full your backyard.
Mafren go and pluck leaf or buy from your market please.
There will be roles to play in marriage and for your marriage to actually thrive, each person has to effectively play their respective roles, but most importantly, you both have to be willing to pick up the other person’s roles when they can’t.
And no, these roles aren’t gendered.
Who should pay the bills, cook, clean, or whatsoever, shouldn’t be split according to man or woman, but according to who’s more capable of fulfilling that role, at that point in time!
Bearing this in mind, it’s also important to note that these roles can change hands from time to time, depending on seasons and place. The person who’s the major breadwinner today, can be the chief home carer tomorrow.
What’s important is that, that which you can do, that which you need to do, you’re doing it as best as you can.
Remember, it’s a partnership not a war. Complementing each other over competing with each other>>>
If you want to maintain healthy relationships in ur life you have to learn how to reconcile the right way. When you mistreat or mishandle someone that u love & care about, apologize to them & address the issue. Waiting for time to pass hoping it will get better is not an apology.