Abusers will always try to paint the picture that they’ve “changed” when in reality they’re abuse just took on a different form. Going from punching someone as hard as you can in the face/head to forcefully holding their arms so they can’t leave or move IS STILL ABUSE.
Anyone who has ever been through domestic abuse it is literally NOT your job to hide all the abuse you went through for your abuser. You telling people about it is not starting “drama” it’s taking your power back. Period. The end.
Me filming all my own dance videos and choreography has been the biggest blessing in disguise. I’ve now found something new I’m passionate about and no longer have to rely on anyone else to do it for me it’s the most liberating feeling🩵
Only a narcissist will physically, verbally, mentally abuse you, cheat on you multiple times, verbally abuse your friends/family and then blame you when you stop hiding their secrets. A crazy breed fr
You learn a lot about people when you go through an abusive relationship & multiple break ups trying to get free. Some people would rather stay unbothered/keep supporting the abuser because it’s easy. When in reality by supporting you’re only validating the abuser & their actions
@DJossebas And that makes it okay? At 19 you’ve barely been an adult for a year so i would hardly classify that as an adult. You’re still maturing emotionally until around 25.