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At this point, I no longer want to argue about who was right or wrong. When you have given someone your sincerity, your time, and your love, you cannot bring yourself to say anything harsh about them.
A post from a fan in China.
#shellypundao
She let you show off your relationship.
She let you cancel plans.
She accepted whether you loved her or not, whether your feelings were sincere or not.
She gave you all the choices and all the control.
Is this really the answer you gave her?
Was “trust issue” just a light, empty, meaningless phrase to you, something without any real weight?
The person in that TikTok who said the thing they could never accept was a partner secretly contacting an ex…
Was that person actually you?
Of course, I also saw the countless ways you took care of her, your possessiveness toward her, and the obvious, sparkling love you showed her.
But the word “love”should never be built on lies.
Lastly, I really want to say this:
SP (once) had the best fans in the world.
Although being unpopular was always their background 🥲, there were video creators who started from nothing and stayed up every night until late making content for them.
There were offline event supporters who traveled everywhere just to save a few dozen yuan, so they could make more support projects and help SP look better.
There were also wealthy fans who quietly spent a lot of money buying many tickets and giving them away, but never mentioned it.
The funny thing is, the sentence everyone has been saying most recently is actually:
“I would rather they had never been real.”🚬
Children can make mistakes.
Children can fall down.
Children can act without thinking about the consequences.
But people who betray sincere love will never deserve forgiveness.
People always have to keep moving forward.
Pundao, you deserve the best love in the world.
I wish everyone all the best in your real lives.
A submission shared by one Chinese fan:
1. Some fans knew about the existence of that man very early on. But the photos together were from when S was very, very young, and they were all photos with family members. Even if there was some kind of relationship, fans only thought they might have been childhood friends or cousins. No one thought they were still together now.
2. SP really were in a relationship. Don’t keep questioning whether it was just fan service. Please stop questioning their relationship and keep at least tiny of kindness and respects to pd.
For the past two days, many friends have asked me about this, and I have comforted many people as well. I had thought that they might break up one day, but I never imagined it would happen in this way, or that it would happen so quickly. It feels like a double kill emotionally and professionally
Thinking about it now, it’s actually quite absurd. When they weren’t popular, they spent every day dreaming about all kinds of possibilities. Now that the traffic and attention have suddenly come crashing down on them, they find themselves unable to handle it.
The fans who have followed them all the way from the beginning never questioned whether they were real. What everyone struggled with was understanding.
We don’t understand why she pursued PD while she already had a boyfriend. During the early workshop of the roller coaster period, everyone knew that SPN were doing pair promotions. This proved that fan service was completely okay and something everyone accepted. Everyone is just a working adult trying to make money. Doing a job and earning money is completely reasonable.
What we don’t understand is: if SL really loved PD, why would she be willing to hurt her like this?
For more than a year, she had countless opportunities to explain everything clearly. With that man, with PD, there were many chances for things to be turned around.
So many times, I really wanted to ask SL: Did you ever, even for one second, stand in PD’s shoes and think about how hurt she would be when she learned the truth?
You could perform possessiveness as part of the fan service.
You could treat going out together as content.
You could make livestreams look like sweet moments.
But when you held back your tears at your birthday event and said that you hoped PD could always be the person who brought you a birthday cake…
When PD kissed your cheek and you proudly lifted your tail, smiling so happily…
When you showed off with a bright and proud smile, saying that you had a “faen” to eat with, drink tea with, shower with, listen to music with, and watch idols with…
When you packed your luggage and moved into PD’s home, and spent half of your time living with her…
Did you ever, even a little bit, feel guilty toward PD?
PD took you to see a doctor even while she was sick herself, after you had just come back from traveling with that man and developed an allergic reaction on your foot.
How long did you sleep, and how long did she stay awake watching over you?
You liked playing pool. Even though she wasn’t interested, she accompanied you again and again.
You liked The Weeknd. She even paid extra for expedited shipping just to get you his autograph.
You had never been to Shanghai. After she had visited with her parents, she immediately took you there and spent two days showing you around without letting you arrange anything.
When you were attacked online because of your heritage, she stayed with you during livestreams, connected with you, and tried every possible way to make you happy.
You disappeared again and again. When fans said your behavior was not okay, she immediately came out to defend you and wouldn’t allow anyone to say a single bad word about you.
She brought you home for Mid-Autumn Festival, introduced you to her parents and relatives, and let you feel as free and comfortable as if you were at your own home.
#shellypundao
@ThaiGLOpinion Obrigada por tirar essa dúvida, com isso eu descartei a possibilidade de ser umas atrizes que estreou recentemente em um gl que ainda está em exibição
Passando todo esse auê,ao menos a pudao é uma atriz de fala acertiva e que tem TOTAL consciência que a Tailândia heterossexualiza relacionamento homoafetivo e ainda defende o direito das ativas, passivas e relativas. Doa a quem doer, a diva é consciente.