I don't think everyone understands that "owning" a sub is a valid kink, just like wanting an online wallet bf dynamic.
Yes, some are lying. Yes, many aren't loyal. Yes, few truly care.
That's not the point. I don't need certainty. I don't even care.
The illusion suits me. A sub willing to do everything to make me believe it's real, that's part of the thrill.
Wanting that doesn't make us delusional. It's a kink like any other.
Do I prefer honesty? Of course. But pretending is more than enough.
This is my safe space. A world where I experiment on my terms.
What they do outside the dynamic is irrelevant to me, as long as they behave the way I want within it.