Mimi naye vijana sitawadanganya nimeishi kuwa Maskini namna ii. Apana! Kuna wakati mimi pesa haikua shida. Kuna wakati pesa ilikua imeniitikia. I could do nothing and still earn money. Ubroker ilikua imeniitikia namna ile msuri kapsa. Leo nimeuza shamba,kesho nimeuza Rim za tinga tinga,siku ingine nimeuza Transformer,yani nilikua nauza kila kitu. I accumulated alot of money then,but unfortunately just like any other young man,I spent it on nonsense.
Mimi sikua nangoja matatu ijae,kwani mimi ni mtoto? Kuna siku nimeingia gari namna ii nikapata mimi ndiye wa kwanza. Nikaambia makanga funga gari twende. Dont waste my time! Gari ya seventy nikalipa 1100shillings. Alinilipisha mpaka ile ya imaginary excess people he would have carried. Matako ililia mbwata aki
Mimi kinyozi sikua naingia hizi zakupigwa na mkia kama Nzi. Kinyozi nilikua naingia ile executive. Hii wanakunyoa na 2 hours. Ile anapitisha machine anarudia na brush,machine anapitia na brush tena. Nikitoka apo naingizwa kwa hii helmet ya saloon,hapo kichwa inakua moto,ni ma preparation sasa.
Alafu Wananiingisa na apo nyuma kwa massage kichwa ikiwa moto. Na mimi walikua wanajua siwezi oshwa kichwa na mwanamke ako na matiti ndogo,sababu kichwa yangu nilikua nawekelea apo. Akinipapasa papasa uso namna hii kichwa ikiwa juu ya Brookside,auii! Huyo nikitoka hapo natwanga yeye 2 sausand pap! Nilitesa sana
Mambo yangu ilikuja kubadilika 2022. Wakati mliingisa ule jamaa wa illumnati state house. I have never recovered until today. Yani Pesa ilipotea mara moja, kama Peter kenneth after election. Mungu baba kama unaniskia sahii naomba msamaha,pesa ukinipatia tena sitacheza nayo. Nimetubu.
Khabusie!
Na kitu ingine vijana,manake ni muhimu tupeane ushauri sisi kama kizazi cha kiume. When it comes to impressing women,It is important you know when and where to stop. Lazima ukue na boundary. Because its very easy to lose yourself along the way. Kuna mahali unafaa kufika unajua hii imeenda,haikua yangu. Na kama hujui nakwambia utaumia. Some of these women will exploit you to the core once they notice how desperate you are to have them appreciate you
Anaitisha hii unaleta,ukidhani hiyo itamtuliza,anaitisha ingine. It never ends. Ni muhimu sana Ukipatana na sampuli kama hii,kumbusha yeye wewe apana baba yake,na ujitoe. Na hii ni kitu inasumbua mpaka watu wameoa. Mimi siniliwaambia kuna wakati bibi aliona nikama nimekua nugu,nikaskia ameniambia ati anaona ingekua ni jambo mzuri sana nikivurutia baba yake stima kwao. Hapa ndio niligundua nimekua mchache,Ndoo ilikua hapo nikaweka teke namna hii, ikatoa tunnel. Hiyo maneno sijai skia tena
Wanaume ni muhimu tujue boundary iko wapi. Mimi navuruta stima kwani mimi ni KenGen. Aiii!
Naambianga Mwanaume the Moment your girl tells you ‘Im pregnant’,stop whatever you are doing and start scheming. Start arming yourself like you’re going to war. Manake hii kitu inaitwa mimba ina swara mingi sana ata kushinda Maasai mara. If you drink,stop! If you gamble,stop! If you do nonsensical road trips,stop. Start saving. Because you will need it. The first thing that happens when your wife gets pregnant is jobs get lost. Wale wa free lancing. Kazi zinapotea nakwambia unashangaa kwani namna gani. Others get fired. The most un anticipated misfortunes you never thought of happen when you have a baby on the way. Kuna spirit ya mimba huwa inawachiliwa huko jehanamu ikuje ikutese ndio mtoto akikuja apate mambo ilichemukia baba yake alipotea. I call it the spirit if Singo mathahood. Chesa!
I don’t agree with everything Andrew Kibe says, but some of his advice to men makes sense.
I came across his content where he talks about men taking responsibility for their lives, working hard, not depending on others for happiness, and learning to love and prioritize themselves. That part resonated with me, especially the idea that if you fix yourself, you won’t project your trauma onto others.
However, I don’t agree with the idea that men should never cry or ask for help. Strength is not about suppressing emotions, it’s about handling them in a healthy and controlled way.
Lately, there have been many cases of femicide. A man who attacks or kills a woman because of infidelity or a breakup is not strong,he is emotionally unstable and unable to control himself.
In many of these situations, the root problem is overdependence in relationships. Some men invest everything,emotionally and mentally,into one person, expecting them to be their sole source of happiness. Combined with a scarcity mindset, when the relationship ends, it feels like their entire world has collapsed.
Others become abusive, not necessarily because their partner has done something wrong, but because they are projecting their own unresolved issues and trauma.
As men, we need to work on ourselves emotionally, mentally, and financially. Self-love and self-respect matter.
If you take care of yourself, you are in a better position to take care of others. If you manage your emotions well, you are less likely to resort to violence.
At the end of the day, a man who truly values himself will not destroy his life by harming others. Real strength is self-control, responsibility, and emotional maturity.
The last time I wrote about it as a joke but now im writing about it as a pandemic. The spirit of Self pleasuring is finishing the young generation. A very big percentage of both Genzs and millennials are masturbating,vigorously. And its both genders,the women are buying very funny looking tools and the men have their hands. Sex an artful doing that pulled opposite gender together is now pulling them apart
Juu unajua ukimasturbate,when you start it looks like fun,but now when you cant stop,it becomes like a drug. Na unajiharibu. Wamama wamerub ile kitu mpaka imeisha sensitivity kapsaa,it now looks like a butterfly without wings. Jamaa nao makagare aiskii kitu,juu amezoea kuikamata nikama ananyonga mwisi,you can never find such grip on a womans genitals
So when these two people meet for sex,each of them will have masturbate at some point after the sex,the expirience the pleasure of ejaculation. Kwanza Hawa mnaona wakijiita independent women wamejaza manyundo kwa hizo handbag zao. And one of the reason Nairobi relationships are barely making it past 6 months,is this. Please let us find God my children
But kairo,you are not a strong man as you presume,you are what we call a Yes man. And at the end of the day,a Yes man and dust will always be re united in kalahari desert. You think that by fullfilling womens’ fantasies you are more chivalrous than the rest of us. When you see us lecture these young girls about promiscuity,its not because we’re stupid or weak. There is something we call occupational hazard.
Occupational hazards are specific dangers that are expirienced in environments,in this case,a university student and a married man alone in an AirBNB in kilimani. When we tell these young girls,to punguza umalaya,we are not insulting them. We are telling them to stay away from trouble. Because society has all type of people. When your mother told you to come home early,giza isikupate nje,its because she was aware of the occupational hazards that exist at night where you live.
Dont be a Yes man,kairo. Kumbavu sana
Rigathi Gachagua is now going around promising improved salaries to civil servants; saying he's sure that Kenyans will elect him President in 2027. Hii ni maajabu kabisaa.
Congratulations, Mbavu Destroyer on building your mother a beautiful and decent home, what a proud and admirable achievement.
Wachana naule mwingine girlfriend atamfanyia ile kitu ya Njugush.