“What if he finds someone else?”
What if you find someone else too? Someone kinder, finer, funnier, more emotionally available, more obsessed with you, or even someone taller?
Just what if?
We don’t care what the other person is doing. We care about what you are doing. Focus on yourself.
Not to be depressing at all, but I’m slowly making peace with the possibility of being single for the rest of my life. The good ones are taken, the bad ones are everywhere, and honestly, I’m no longer interested in stressing myself over it. I’ll focus on myself and let life unfold however it chooses to.
my “enza okubonayo” attitude probably makes me very easy to cheat on hey? i don’t check phones, locations, messages, who you’re with, where you are, or what you’re doing. if you tell me something, i take your word for it. i trust you until you give me a reason not to.
and once you do give me that reason, that’s honestly the end of the conversation. i’m not begging for explanations, or demanding passwords. if you lied to me or cheated on me, i’ll simply leave you alone. i don’t have the emotional stamina for investigations.
im a simple girl.
umdala so do whatever tf you want man, i dont have time😭🙏🏾
I need a man who understands that I can spend three days in a hotel with my male bestie and nothing will ever happen between us because he is just a friend😭
My 20s definitely taught me there's no point in doubling back on anything. No friendship, not a relationship, not a Job. Once it has ran it's course, move accordingly. It's your job to take the lesson, add it to character, and move on.