It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.
If your parents made 40k in the 1990s, you’d need to make 170k to have the same lifestyle in 2026
So 170k is the new 40k
This should absolutely shock you
all women should sleep for 10 hours if they can, have afternoon siestas, ‘waste time’ with no guilt, have unproductive days of reading fiction, sunbathing and eating delicious food. every woman should relax more and allow the universe to take care of them and spoil them
actually your community IS coming to save you, people are going to show up for you, love is going to find you, strangers are going to be like angels, the world conspires for your highest good