many of you know Iโm not new to the Ideology of โLOVERSโ tbh itโs good seeing more people moving towards it I support it but unfortunately Some of these men y'all are dealing with don't even like you like that let alone respect you enough to play along with that dynamic or ideology it just the truth
So now it just looks forced or worse delusional
Everybody doesn't have the same leverage Everybody doesn't have the same access
men are not dumb they dam sure as hell ainโt a Square they know what many of you are doing I havenโt seen one woman successfully use this ideology in the REAL WORLD living a wealthy life I want to see more wealthy and financially stable women using this ideology
And that matters whether people want to admit it or not
Also the ideology that these "Women" are REPACKAGING in HAVING MULTIPLE LOVERS or HUSBANDS is rooted in using men Stripping them down to what they can provide what they can do what they can give and removing their humanity from the equation a ideology that I do not support Y'all was just decentering men & living a soft life NOW everybody Wants multiple LOVERS & HUSBANDS ( LIEN HEFFAS)
Anywho controlling another being is not empowerment to me and that's not my intention when it comes to any human being I can promise you 95% of you are not going to be successful with this ideology because you do not have that PRIVILEGE With men outside of lying about who you are and what you were brought up on If you have to play games lie perform power or follow a script to receive anything your not who you think you are Y'all don't even live by what you say on SOCIAL MEDIA but who am with my Black ahhhh๐
How people handle you when youโre unknown is their true character. You shouldnโt have to be โsomebodyโ to be treated with respect, decency and to be given your credit. Or even given a chance
Seeing Biracial and Latino women get on social media claiming to be so distraught about kamelo Anthony case and how they fear for their Biracial children lives against white children is what I mean when I say women are performative and look for any reason to Center themselves even at the expense of Children they canโt even give birth to a child who is literally fighting for his life yโall canโt even OPENLY speak on black issues regarding black children without Chat gpt a teleprompter or being theatrical whatโs so crazy is that their children Will never experience nearly the same Racism and brutality as a Fully BLACK CHILD would the obsession yโall have with giving your none black children black children Experiences to prove a point is not only psychotic but insidious while they are being hunted down like cattleโs and crying out for their parents in the midst of these atrocities acts as a Black wombyn I am not surprised by the verdict regarding this Baby because Iโm BLACK this is a common thing with OUR children has been for years and yโall all chose this situation out of all cases with black children being wrongfully convicted huh ??? Yโall was quick to center yourselves and harvest that little black boy energy Yโall canโt hide them Yt genetics for to long I keep telling yโall women are liars and PERFORMATIVE they will do anything to be viewed as a decent human being they sit around and wait for the perfect opportunity to Center themselves while they continue not to do anything outside of social media for these same Black kids they care so much about lying ass Heffas
People will betray you under the right circumstances People will not hesitate to put your life and safety on the line in exchange for their own Humans are selfish by nature You are thinking unnatural to think someone will put their life before yours Anybody is capable of anything People do whatโs best for them in the end
idk if this is toxic or actually practical but iโve learned to be very careful with the extent that you allow yourself to be entangled in the lives of others so that you always have a clean exit available