A man sets the frame of thought for women to think from.
If a man hates himself, he teaches others to hate him. If a man doubts himself, he teaches others to doubt him.
Confidence comes from within and spreads without.
Men who do not doubt themselves, show no fear or anxiety will inspire confidence in their authority and will inspire respect.
Don’t be self deprecating and reveal weakness. Hide weakness until it is solved and destroyed. Only show strength and others will think you strong. Chin towards God.
I don't know how many times I will reiterate this,
As a MAN,
Don't entertain jokers in your life.
Your life is hard enough.
Don't lower your standards just to please others.
Don't accept,
Dont budge,
Don't lower your frame.
People who value you will always respect you.
Every time you permit disrespectful jokes, you educate them that you have no self-respect.
The people who don't respect and value you are the same ones who will kick you when you are at your lowest.
So, shut the door and continue focusing.
When you shut the jokers off, they will throw tantrums because, just like a gambling addict, you have taken away their favourite poker machine.
The people who want to be part of you will naturally align with your values and follow your vision.
Therefore, be strict.
Make your access as strict as possible.
People should earn access to you through trust, reverence and respect.
Trade Like A Casino, Not A Gambler:
Anyone who has driven down the strip in Las Vegas can tell who is rolling in the money – the Casinos! Why do gamblers keep going back, despite losing the majority of the time? A combination of misplaced hope, fantasies about the Big Win, promising themselves they will be able to walk away at will, and probably the inability to calculate probabilities.
These symptoms are often shared by new traders who have lost money in the stock market, when visions of effortlessly trading their way to prosperity clouded their judgement.
In gambling there are only two sides; you are an either gambler, or you are the house.
The gamblers have the long term odds stacked against them. The casino has stacked the odds against the gambler, and the more they risk, the greater the chance that they will leave empty-handed.
The winning principles of trading can be understood by using the casino paradigm. Profitable traders operate like casinos, with the odds in their favor over the long term. They have learned to trade with historically, back-tested trading systems that put the odds on their side. Much like casino operators, they risk small amounts of equity per trade (around 1% – 2% of their accounts), so no one trade can hurt them.
Most unseasoned traders behave like gamblers. They bet on stocks so haphazardly that they have a 50-50 shot like a roulette wheel – red or black. Many times, these traders hurt themselves by buying into the market in a downtrend and shorting into a rally, believing that they can pick the bottom or top. Some new traders would love to have a 50/50 win ratio, because most don’t get that lucky.
New traders often have no concept of risk management, and like gamblers, they eventually give back all their winnings to the house. Richard Weissman’s book Trade Like a Casino taught me trading is about becoming the casino by using math and probabilities instead of emotions. By being psychologically disciplined and refusing to become invested in outcomes, traders will overcome emotional barriers to trading success.
Casinos set table limits so a gambler cannot hurt their bottom line on any one bet. By understanding the importance of risk management and a positive expectancy model, traders will control their own odds.
Traders must have the discipline to stick with positive expectancy models. Casinos don’t panic and change their rules when a gambler goes on a winning streak, because they know luck eventually runs out.
Traders should never go off their trading plan to try and win back money that they lost. Luck is what gamblers hope for, while good traders are trading for a positive expectancy. Successful traders and casino operators consistently play the probabilities and manage risk in order to win.
Traders should trade the market – not the money involved in their account. Each trade must be based on a proven trading system of entries and exits, and not by how much money a trader hopes to make. Traders should follow the flow and let the market come to them, never letting failed trades from their past force them to revenge trade.
Winning traders always stick with their historically proven trading system.
Casinos do not close down if gamblers go on a winning streak, because they have calculated the odds and play based on those odds.
If we can’t beat them, let’s join them. Be the casino, not the gambler.
“I’m also a firm believer in predicting price direction, but not magnitude. I don’t set price targets. I get out when the market action tells me it’s time to get out, rather than based on any consideration of how far the price has gone. You have to be willing to take what the market gives you.”
“I really value the fact that I’ve learned to trade as a craft. Like any craft, such as piano playing, perfection may be elusive – I’ll never play a piece perfectly, and I’ll never buy the low and sell the high – but consistency is achievable if you practice day in and day out.”
“I truly feel that I could give away all my secrets and it wouldn’t make any difference. Most people can’t control their emotions or follow a system. Also, most traders wouldn’t follow my system, even if I gave them step-by-step instructions, because my approach wouldn’t feel right to them.”
“Understand that learning the market can take years. Immerse yourself in the world of trading and give up everything else. Get as close to other successful traders as you can. Consider working for one for free.”
-Linda Raschke
A woman teaches a man self respect.
Why do women exist? Is it just to bear children or is there another reason on top of that?
Women are sensitive power hounds that reward or punish men based on whether the men showcase weakness or strength.
Why?
Because women base their entire personality around pregnancy and child rearing. They judge men based around that reproductive anxiety.
If a man shows a little weakness, his woman will show a little disrespect just as a man who shows great strength will inspire his woman to show great respect.
Women are reactionary measuring sticks to a man’s strength or weakness of masculine frame. They are guides to help men understand the role and purpose. Not just impregnating them but in emotionally securing them under the authority of frame.
This is why hating women is hating self. They are revealers of weakness and strength. Men who hate women hate what they reveal about themselves.
Carry strong frame and behold women change before you. Then they will join your self respect and the hatred of women will disappear.
Been trading since 2021 and it's 2025, I'm still struggling to make breakeven what I lost already.
Trading is the toughest profession so chose your career wisely.
It's important for everyone to take note on it.
The success rate is less than 10%, have a good day.
When she goes cold, you go colder.
When she slows down, you stop completely.
If she pulls back, you pull back even more.
Never chase someone who is losing interest.
I will teach you how to handle a woman if she loses interest (Don't Simp) .......
Romans 12 vs 2:
Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good.
Refuse to settle for mediocrity. Refresh your mindset every day.
Don't be like the people of the modern world who are stuck in beliefs that have made them remain stagnant and mediocre.
Renew your mind by:
- Reading BOOKS: Seeking new knowledge.
- Learning new skills.
- Joining a tribe of serious people.
Walk with people who challenge your knowledge and skills.
Run away from people who drag you, and drain your energy.
Proverbs 13:20
Walk with the wise and become wise,
for a companion of fools suffers harm.
Guard your purpose and value.
Learn to say NO and focus on your vision.
Refuse to dim your candle to please mediocre people who live in darkness.
Let your light shine upon others.
Don't waste time trying to explain yourself.
People will call you mean, rude and selfish. But that is fine. They won't understand.
Those who understand your vision don't need you to explain anything because they respect your boundaries.
Focus on growth, excellence and purpose.
Refuse to be available, remain valuable through the cultivation of self-discipline.
Run away from people who drag you and drain your energy.
#BetterTogether
by 25+, life has already slapped most men with truths they can't unsee. Here's what the grown ones know:
1. Nobody cares how hard your life is. They only respect results. Cry if you must, but keep moving.
2. Your friends will change. Some will drift, some will envy. Don’t chase. Let them go.
3. Love won’t save you. Build your empire first. Then, find someone who adds peace, not problems.
4. Time moves faster than regret. Every ‘later’ turns into ‘never.’ Stop procrastinating.
5. Your parents won’t be here forever. Call them. Visit them. One day, you’ll wish you did.
6. Comfort is the devil’s playground. Discipline is boring, but so is being broke at 40.
7. Loyalty is rare. Most people are only with you for what they gain. Watch who claps when you win.
8. Health is wealth. The man with six figures but six diseases is still poor. Move your body.
9. Success isolates. The higher you rise, the lonelier it gets. Be prepared.
10. No one is coming to save you. Read that again. The world owes you nothing.
Dear son, embrace these truths. Face the world like a man. The game’s rigged, but a disciplined player still wins.