It’s cuz men remember da best thing about you and women remember da worst thing about you. You be like damn she did stab me but she could cook like a mf. Women brain can erase 100 good things from 1 bad thing you did.
Every woman dating a struggling man has an unspoken timeframe for when she expects his story to change.
Once that timeline expires, the humble and understanding girlfriend voices out or starts emotionally checking out.
A woman only remembers two things: the good she did for you, and the bad you did to her. It's never the good you did for her, it's never the bad she did to you. It's all forgotten..
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I apologize if I don’t reach out anymore. My life is falling apart. I’m sad almost every time, fighting for my life every day, second guessing my career path, tired from a job I don’t like, confused, and sleeping whenever I get free time just to escape reality.
“If a man should provide, protect and lead, what should a woman do?” This is both an interesting question and an important conversation to address the nonsense we call dating and marriage culture right now. We end up creating entitled entities who lack basic understanding.
It finally happened yesterday. We were all playing with a baby and then came then “When are you two going to get busyyy and pop one out?!” and I firmly said, “When we quit losing them.” and the crowd fell silent. Don’t ask questions in which you aren’t prepared for the answer!
Trying to heal, while trying to grieve, while trying to forgive, while trying to forget, while trying to love, while trying to be loved. That's a lot for one heart.