My contribution to this discourse is that I cannot forgive anybody while I’m still facing the consequences of their actions. It is like a constant slap in the face. Fix it, or fuck off
I find it endlessly amusing when men expect a level of domestic labour from me that I don't even do for myself. If I haven't built my own life around cooking every single day, what exactly makes you think you'll be the exception?
For example, I typically message people to let them know “hey, I’m in hospital” and such, simply because I don’t assume they can read my mind and tell if I’m okay
So it always throws me when someone goes through something silently and then is upset you didn’t show up
Y’all want:
- neighbours who don’t ask for sugar
- friends that don’t vent
- community spaces without children
- people to hide their struggles
- people to have children they don’t want
- access to resources ONLY when it benefits you
- billionaires to exist
I just-