@na3aretc Honestly if you still want contact with them afterwards then talk to them about it as much as possible and as soon as possible. Write everything they would have questions about down and answer them. Just so they get used to the idea and see that you are serious
Whoever told me the ADHD hack of putting the directions into GPS and leaving it up while you get ready to watch the arrival time, you are a genius and a lifesaver. Actual game changing ADHD advice