I feel many of us just seek a peaceful life with purpose but how can we all experience this when we are consumed by the very systems we built that demand so much from usā¦
The peace we all seek to me is just personal embodiment found when your hands and feet are in the earth moving and reconnecting so one day you can feel nature welcome you home.
Fruit is a lagging indicator.
I was walking through our orchard just now. Weāve been slowly developing it for about ten years.
Feels a lot like building products and businesses for 20+ years:
prepare the ground
prune what drains life
protect whatās fragile
wait longer than you wanted
And every once in a while, by the grace of God, the pollinators pass through.
@shelbystardust Thatās the best gift he could give is his silence š¤
Now if only he would give that gift to the world.. its would be his kindest act to humanity. And to thank him we will all try and forget about him.
Loneliness comes in many shapes and fourms all invisible to the outside observers eye most of the time regardless how close you are ⦠what we see on the outside is rarely whatās happening on the inside.
Weāre like a pendulum swaying between the dark and the light and in those shadows it cast things can get dark even for the brightest souls.
So my thoughts are - itās best to not assume someoneās healthy mental state and check in with love ones and friends expecially the ones we precive as always having their shit together as nobody checks in with them and they tend to never ask as everyone sees them as the one to go to when in needā¦
Anyways much love⦠and check in with friends and family regardless of their gender
There is no such thing as the 'male loneliness epidemic.'
I am guy. Most of my friends are male. None of us are lonely because we go out in real life and do stuff.
Loneliness comes in many shapes and fourms all invisible to the observers eye most of the time regardless how close you are ⦠what we see on the outside is rarely whatās happening on the inside.
Weāre like a pendulum swaying between the dark and the light and in those shadows it cast things can get dark even for the brightest souls.
So my thoughts are - itās best to not assume someoneās healthy mental state and check in with love ones and friends expecially the ones we precive as always having their shit together as nobody checks in with them and they tend to never ask as everyone sees them as the one to go to when in needā¦
Anyways much love⦠and check in with friends and family regardless of their gender.
@HunterBiden@delicatebliss BC, Canada is one of the most beautiful places here some random shot of just random non tourist areas
Itās just beauty everywhere you look.
Yes sir⦠huge gains could be made if everyone tended to their environment respecting the biodiversity and nurtuing it instead of⦠flower less grass that suck up huge amounts of water and time.
Imaging even 4 billion people taking the role and the actionable steps seriously to restore their lawns.
I should start a landscaping company that goal is to go out of business and run out of clients once everyoneās yard back to it more natural state
Itās a Short term business for long term social and ecological gainsā¦. Prob wonāt due well as a publicly traded company though š
Unpopular opinion but I love wildflower lawns my kids love it my dog loves it the bees love it insect frogs snakes birds you name it they love itā¦. But for some reason socially and culturally lots of humans disagree⦠I feel this is in part of our major issue with our collective connection with nature or lack there of!
Less lawn, more nature, nurture you nature, so you feel at home with nature!
(As I write this Iām listening to a city mower whack down a bunch of wild flowers and blackberry bushes behind all the fence lines and Iām not sure why as itās just a walking trail with plenty of room to just trim it not wack it down to its rootsā¦. )
@DevonBuildHappy Whatās a weed though?? Many thing we classify as weeds are both food and medicine and helps treat both soil and air.
But I usually just do a single mow end of the year before the snow flys and leave it to mulch over winter
We are saying no to a data centre in Ćle-des-ChĆŖnes because there are big threats to the environment and not much benefit to the economy.
Our message to any tech company out there⦠if you want to build technology with a thoughtful, human-centred approach that puts humanity first, then Manitoba is open for business. š¦¬
Two guys meet for coffee.
One is worth $50,000,000.
The other is worth $50,000.
Society would say the first guy is more successful⦠without knowing anything about their lives.
It seems absurd to pass that sort of judgement, and yetā¦
You and I fall into that trap every day:
āWe idolize the rich and famous without knowing anything about their personal lives.
āWe use those same narrow criteria to measure our own success.
Most people have never taken the time to define success for themselves. So they inherit society's definition.
I created a simple exercise called The Ideal End State to help you with that.
You simply bullet out your best life, with no constraints. Paint a vivid picture that can serve as your North Star, guiding decisions.
Hereās my Ideal End State. Youāll notice that thereās no net worth number on it. Nothing about fame or follower count.
Iāve gone through this exercise with dozens of people, from billionaires to broke people. It turns out that most of us want the same things:
Vibrant health
Freedom and control
Deep, intimate relationships
Adventure and meaningful experiences
Most of those things donāt require $50,000,000.
But they do require clarity.
P.S. A great life isnāt a birthright, itās a privilege that it earned. It took me decades to get there. But one thingsās for sure: youāll never reach your Ideal End State if you donāt define it.
But those dgaf hungover š¤ sends I did in my 20s were magical but also a thing of the past!
As I get older I drink less and less just because it dosent serve me and my goals all the often but every now and then on a hot day after feeling accomplished and worked a cool drink is a wounderfull treat and when done positively I feel little of the neg effect but if I do it often then itās noticeable and becomes negative ( for the past 8 years I think Iāve had booze maybe 5-10 times a year 1-4 drinks on average 2 ⦠very little )
Seems like a happy middle ground to be on