You suffer because you try too hard to control. You cling to people, outcomes, ideas about yourself. You take it all so seriously and it makes you anxious and stressed. Release and let go. Live life the way you would hold sand. Not with a closed fist, but an open palm.
Witches call it magic. Religious people call it prayer. Spiritualists call it manifestation. Atheists call it the placebo effect. Scientists call it quantum physics. Everyone debates its name, but no one denies its existence.
If you’re single and no kids this is the golden time for you to stack money. If you bump into somebody and fall in love cool. But put more energy into hitting stacking goals.
$3,000 savings
401k match (match is whatever % your employer matches)
$7,500 in a Roth ($QQQ)
$10,000 in a brokerage $SMH, $VOO , Bitcoin
Hit all of those then look for someone who is also aligned with stacking.
a big sign you're not doing okay is saving the good stuff for later. not wearing your best outfit, not opening the good bottle, not using the cologne sitting on your shelf. you're not saving it for an occasion. you're saving it for a version of you that you don't believe in yet.
solo dates hacks every man should try, at least once every year
1. take yourself to the cinema alone. buy popcorn. pick a seat you actually want. laugh, cry if you need to. no one talking to you. just you and the movie.
2. go to a cafe on a weekday. order a drink and a small pastry. sir by the window and face your phone down for a bit. watch people going to work, students rushing, cars passing, birds singing, children playing, just life moving in that pace.
3. book a nice but affordable hotel in your city. pack a small overnight bag like you're traveling. order room service or buy food on the way. take a long cold shower, wear your robe, lie on the bed and do nothing if you want. journal, watch a movie, listen to a relaxing music, sleep in clean white sheets and covers with the ac on.
4. take yourself on a saturday breakfast. wake up early, shower, wear something cute. go somewhere that serves breakfast. sit there, and order something nice. enjoy your meal, take some selfies even if you not photogenic.
5. enjoy yourself man. come on, you deserve it. you need it.
bookmark and share to others
buena suerte 👍
LeBron James says he couldn't date a stay at home woman
“I think personally me today, if I was not in a relationship, I could not have a stay at home woman”
“For me, who I am at 40 and what I got going on, just coming home and seeing somebody sitting on the couch every day just chilling, that wouldn't float for me”
If your spirit says delete them off your social media, delete them. If your spirit says don't hang out with them, don't hang with them. If your spirit says stop venting to them, then stop venting to them. You're not tripping. You'll be surprised at the conversations people have behind your back while smiling like they haven't done anything. You'll be surprised who is watching you, hoping you fail but pretending to be on your team. Monitoring spirits are real! Trust your intuition your spirit sees what your eyes can't. Ask God for the discernment needed in this season.