I have a developing theory that a lot of people have never molded their own personality in a way thatโs self-aware without being fake or self-loathing
Like theyโve never observed themselves and thought โhm I donโt like the way Iโm interfacing with the worldโ and then changed it to better align with who they want to be
Doesnโt make sense to them at all; they have no frame for it other than Mean Girls. Maybe theyโre naturally perfect. Maybe theyโre clueless. Idk
Watching Chisom NOT watch a show and then she'll start asking me questions like she didn't actively ignore the plot points directly in front of her eyes
What I dislike is when someone ISN'T excited about something, and still expects me to keep engaging with them about said topic
Ummm no, you're ruining the vibes and I don't wanna
I don't enjoy talking to people about things that I'm really excited about/engaged with, & they're "meh" about it
And I recognize that no one owes me enthusiasm, so I generally only seek out conversation about things that excite me with people who are equally excited about them