Ghost

[zahraa @zhraagemes]

⚠️ Warning to all wives in the world:

No matter how busy you are, never leave your precious child with your husband. This is what will happen 😂

[Babs @_torgbejohn]

i will choose this over $1000

[MattyFC @MattyFC__]

all we want is consistency...

[CHIGO @iamChigoo]

Marriage doesn’t fix what dating already revealed.

[AB⚕ @AbsoluteBruno]

Those 8 minutes after that Cape Verde second goal, was genuinely one of the best moments of this World Cup

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

‘No.. That’s peer pressure from TV’🔥

[Linus Kaikai @LinusKaikai]

I endorse this message…,

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Some of you are blurring the lines between casual sex and relationship. If you can't do relationship, stick to casual/paid sex. If you can't do casual/paid sex, stick to relationship.

This idea that you are not loved enough or you are being cheated if your man is not paying for your time, is a very nonsense mentality that only happens here. Your man should not be paying for your transport to go and see him. You are going to see your man whom you claim to love. Many of you sre using relationship for street. To outsiders, you have a man, but you know you are there to get paid. You should be excited to go see him, and spending your money to do that should naturally give you satisfaction. You even want to be paid for your time there because in your head, he had sex with you and if he loves you, he should give you money. Are you selling the sex or not? Stick to one script.

It is called love making because two people in love are having sex. Anytime you monetize intimacy and companionship, the love is absent. You know this bevsuse you know you do not love him. NOBODY under heaven wants to be paid for sex by someone they love.

If you are billing your man for spending time with you, you are a terrible person. That one needs to be said because some of you are taking pride doing it and shaming those not doing it as "forming good girl." You are terrible. It is not a flex. Similarly you are are not different for not asking if you still expect to be paid. Love comes with responsibility. To love is to GIVE. You cannot be expecting to be paid for your time. Are you rendering a service?

This is why it is much better dealing with foreigners. Someone in love juat want to love and be loved. Spending time with you is the love in and of itself. She pays her transport/drive to your place, bring you gift and still chooses to share the bills because love is responsibility. The guy does same because it is a two way street. Every action is motivated by "I love him" not "make I chop him money." The ones doing casual sex just wants to fuck. They transport themselves to you and get enough fuck and everyone is happy. If you offer her money for any reason, she would take offence because you are now calling her what she isn't. You'll end up begging and explaining if you no want problem. The ones selling sex are upfront about it and will tell you they expect to be paid and how much. In all of these, there is consent and clarity. Nobody will claim they don't know what they are doing.

I do not have problem with casual or paid sex. I've said it countless times. In fact, I also encourage it because it is a societal necessity and it is also 100 times better than the monetized relationship you people are doing. I have a problem with blurring the lines between relationship and casual/paid sex. Dont bring paid sex mentality into relationship. Relationship is for lovers. You are there to give. It is the love you give that you deserve. People into paid sex can factor their transportation into their service charge. That does not apply in relationship. This thing is just common sense.

To wrap up, there are ladies in Nigeria who do casual sex with you because they like you and see you as mature, and you cannot offer them money because you both know it is disrespectful. You are simply helping each other satisfy urges and respecting what yourselves and what you share. I had to say this so they know we are not grouping everyone together. The difference between this and relationship is love and commitment. Note that, it is very okay if you want to be paid for your time, just be honest about it upfront, not keeping quiet and dying from unfulfilled entitlement. This does not apply to relationship. Relationship is for lovers and love comes with responsibility.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Interviewer: How much does your husband have to make to take care of a family of 5?

Her: We make over $200k combined.

Interviewer: So you split the bills on your household?

Her: Yeah. Everything is joint.

They have 3 kids and she is not using them as an excuse to be financially irresponsible to the home. Spotting family values is not rocket science

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Deciding to give the court power over your relationship, which is what marriage is by the way, is a choice - especially if you live in the West.

The Marital laws in the West doesn’t make any sense. I wonder why they have not pressured their law makers to change it.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

She works. He works. Her whole income goes into the home, just like his. He has learnt to send her money for no reason because she no dey ask. She invest her salary in the home. Sometimes, he would tease her "come, you know you have a husband abi? You can just tell me what we need to buy" and she would laugh and say "but I can afford it. Am I not working?"

Just 2 people fully devoted and committed to each other. No "my money is my money"

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

I think it is funny that your wife decides if and when you fuck. Decides how your income is spent while refusing to contribute her income to the home. Gives you curfew ortherwise she locks you out and stay mad at you. Decides if you eat at home or not. Decides if you have guests or not, and when they should leave. Decides who you can be friends with and whom you should cut off. Makes all the rules at home otherwise you won't have "peace." Disrespects and violates you at will.

This is what women call partnership. This is what men call "marry first."

[Aku N’esi Obi Ike (I) @Kasieobi_1]

Imagine being this young with this level of sense of entitlement and arrogance.

Nigerian girls in summary, if we’re being honest.

Tufiakwa!

I love the way the guy hung up on her.

[Troll Football @TrollFootball]

Me: Places a bet on rain across the whole pitch…

The Rain:

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

This brings me back to our argument about professional and unprofessional players.

I told you people that the difference between professionals and unprofessionals is fitness, not talent. People kept arguing that you can't be better than anybody in Europe. What you lack is opportunity. Who don sabi don sabi. Football is a gift.

Zadok had not played one minute of professional football in Nigeria. He was spotted by a scout and sent to Sweden to play with and against professionals. In a year, his impact in Sweden got him a big move to Brighton.

From grassroot to dominating Swedish top league to moving to Brighton. "The best player in Nigeria cannot be better than the lowest ranked player in division 3" una. Go pursue am na

[Elvis Tunde @Tunnykvng]

CHAMPIONS OF EUROPE, YOU’LL NEVER SING THAT @ARSENAL

[Danny Walter 🧸 @AjeboDanny]

This doesn’t just apply to relationships. It applies to friends, family, even your parents.

Start giving your parents a monthly allowance and stop later because you’re broke, they’ll resent you. That gateman you give money to every day, the moment you stop, he’ll resent you too.

A gift is not supposed to be steady or predictable. Once it becomes expected, it stops being a gift and becomes an obligation.

Don’t start what you can’t sustain. Even good intentions become harmful in excess.