Y’all don’t realize how deeply you break someone when you push them to the point where they gotta give up on you, especially when they REALLY loved you. Cause for someone like me to walk away, that means you crossed a line so hard it left me sitting with no choice, questioning everything, praying, sitting in silence, losing sleep, losing appetite, losing myself… just to make the decision to cut you off. That kind of hurt is damn near grief you’re still alive, but you gotta be dead to me. And this ain’t just about relationships, this goes for family, friends, anybody. 📌💯
Been with my wife for 11 years.
Don’t do this.
When me and my wife lived apart it wasn’t uncommon for us to go 7+ hours without texting each other sometimes.
People aren’t obligated to respond to you immediately anytime you text. Sometimes people are busy, not paying attention to their phones etc.
“It only takes 5 seconds to respond”
Doesn’t matter. Yall act like ya’ll respond to every DM you get immediately, not how it works. Sometimes people just don’t want to talk.
Also regardless, the spamming messages, the guilt tripping, yeah you’re only going to push that person away. Very childish.
approaching your 30s and not knowing anything about politics when you're living in the country currently being affected by current events involving ICE is embarrassing. and if you pretend to not have a political stance so you don't lose your racist viewer base, that's even more embarrassing.
people don't ask for your political opinion because they think you can teach them, they're asking so they can decide if they want to support you or not based on your morals.
i'm not saying everyone is required to speak up but if you are truly apolitical then just shut the fuck up and don't bring it up in the first place instead of making fun of people for caring.