I’ve been thinking about this babe on TikTok who said she knew it was time to end things with her boyfriend because he said/did something and she thought ‘my future husband wouldn’t say that to me, wouldn’t speak to me like that, that’s not the love story I want to tell my kids’.
Unpopular opinion: but being too “sweet” as a woman gets you stepped on. And maybe it’s a trauma response but people didn’t hear me until I became more dominant. And let’s not confuse dominance with masculinity because you can still be a dominant, powerful, feminine woman(1/2)
People with no car/don’t drive don’t realize how exhausting it is to link with them sometimes. Like AT THIS AGE, having to pick up, drop off, meet someone at their house, stop at the store rq every time and being the only driver is too much
oh wow this the energy i need. he’s a real man, and not even because of the money because of the way he protects his wife energetically from this man condescending ass questions.